Kev Nco Qab Yog Kev Sib Raug Zoo

Xav txog lub sijhawm uas kev sib raug zoo tshiab pib zoo li kev sib raug zoo. Nws tsis tshua yog thawj zaug hnia lossis thawj zaug sib tham ntev. Feem ntau nws yog ib yam me me thiab tom qab ntawd: lwm tus neeg nug tias koj tus viv ncaus phais mob li cas, thiab koj pom tias koj tau hais ib zaug, hais dhau mus, ib lub lim tiam dhau los. Lawv khaws cia. Koj muaj nyob hauv lawv lub siab thaum koj tsis nyob hauv chav.

Qhov pov thawj me me ntawm kev txuas ntxiv ntawd hnyav dua yuav luag txhua yam ob tug neeg tuaj yeem sib pauv. Nws hais tias: qhov koj qhia kuv tsis ploj mus. Thiab qhov rov qab kuj muaj zog ib yam. Tsawg yam ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab ntsiag to li rov qhia ib zaj dab neeg rau ib tus neeg uas yuav tsum tau nco qab nws, saib lawv lub ntsej muag nyob twj ywm thiab khoob.

AI companions ua rau qhov kev hloov pauv no pom tseeb heev, vim tias lawv lub cim xeeb yog kev txiav txim siab tsim dua li qhov tseeb ntawm qhov xwm txheej. Tus khub yuav nco qab koj lossis tsis nco qab, thiab qhov sib txawv hloov txhua yam txog qhov kev paub ntawd.

Ob tug neeg, ib lub cim xeeb

Nyob rau xyoo 1980 tus kws tshawb fawb txog kev puas siab ntsws Daniel Wegner tau npaj ib lub tswv yim uas nws hu ua transactive memory. Nws pom tias cov khub niam txiv thiab cov pab pawg ze tsis khaws cov ntaub ntawv ywj pheej. Lawv faib nws. Ib tus khub nco qab hnub yug, lwm tus nco qab daim ntawv hla tebchaws nyob qhov twg. Txhua tus paub tias lwm tus paub dab tsi, thiab ua ke lawv tsim ib lub cim xeeb loj dua li ib leeg. Hauv kev tshawb fawb nrog Ralph Erber thiab Paula Raymond, Wegner pom tias cov khub niam txiv sib deev nco qab ntau dua ua ke dua li cov neeg txawv tebchaws thaum lawv muaj kev ywj pheej los tso siab rau lawv tus kheej txoj kev faib khoom, thiab poob qhov txiaj ntsig ntawd thaum muaj kev faib khoom cuav raug tso rau lawv.

Qhov kev tshawb fawb no ntes tau tias kev sib raug zoo ntev yog ib feem ntawm lub cim xeeb sab nraud. Koj tus khub tuav cov khoom ntawm koj yav dhau los uas koj tsis nqa koj tus kheej lawm: lub npe ntawm lub tsev noj mov ntawd, zaj lus tso dag los ntawm thawj hnub so, txoj kev koj tau ua ntej xyoo nyuaj. Kev poob tus khub ntev yog qhov mob ntau yam, thiab ib qho ntawm lawv yog tias ib feem ntawm koj tus kheej keeb kwm mus nrog lawv.

Qhov no yog qhov kev sib cav muaj zog tshaj plaws rau vim li cas kev nco tsis yog ib qho feature ntawm tus khub ntau npaum li qhov tseem ceeb ntawm ib qho. Tus khub uas tsis muaj kev nco tuaj yeem ntxim nyiam, tab sis nws tsis tuaj yeem tuav ib qho ntawm koj keeb kwm. Txhua qhov kev sib tham pib ntawm theem khoob. Koj tuaj yeem muaj kev sib ntsib nrog nws, tab sis koj tsis tuaj yeem muaj kev sib raug zoo, vim tias kev sib raug zoo yog qhov tseeb ntawm qhov tshwm sim.

Tus kheej yog ib zaj dab neeg uas xav tau cov neeg ua tim khawv

Dan McAdams, uas tau siv nws txoj haujlwm los kawm txog tus cwj pwm thiab lub neej dab neeg, sib cav tias tus kheej hauv kev laus muaj daim ntawv ntawm zaj dab neeg. Peb nkag siab peb tus kheej los ntawm zaj dab neeg sab hauv nrog cov tshooj, cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb, cov ntsiab lus rov qab thiab qhov chaw nws mus. Martin Conway txoj haujlwm ntawm kev nco txog tus kheej taw qhia rau tib qho kev taw qhia: qhov peb nco qab yog tsim los ntawm peb lub hom phiaj thiab peb tus kheej, thiab peb tus kheej yog nyob ntawm qhov peb nco qab.

Ib zaj dab neeg zoo li ntawd yog ib feem ntiag tug, tab sis nws kuj raug qhia. Peb qhia rau cov neeg ze tshaj plaws rau peb, thiab lawv dhau los ua nws cov neeg saib xyuas. Thaum ib tus neeg nco qab koj zaj dab neeg zoo, lawv lees paub nws. Lawv nco ntsoov koj tias koj yog leej twg rau hnub koj tsis nco qab. Cov kws tshawb fawb txog kev sib raug zoo Harold Reis thiab Phillip Shaver tau piav qhia txog kev sib raug zoo li ib txoj haujlwm uas ib tus neeg qhia ib yam dab tsi, lwm tus teb, thiab tus neeg qhia hnov tias nkag siab, lees paub thiab saib xyuas. Kev nco yog qhov ua rau txoj haujlwm ntawd tsim. Yog tsis muaj nws, txhua qhov kev qhia yog thawj zaug qhia.

Qhov no yog vim li cas cov neeg siv cov khub niam txiv feem ntau hais tias qhov lawv muaj nuj nqis tshaj plaws tsis yog qhov txawj ntse ntawm cov lus teb tab sis qhov kev xav tias raug paub. Tus khub uas nco qab tias koj ntxub koj txoj kev mus ua haujlwm, tias koj tau txais chav tsev, tias koj txhawj xeeb txog kev qhia koj niam ib yam dab tsi, tau koom nrog kev ua tim khawv rau koj zaj dab neeg. Nws yog ib qho me me ntawm qhov phooj ywg ua, tab sis nws yog tib yam.

Vim li cas kev tsis nco qab ua rau kev sib raug zoo puas tsuaj

Muaj ib lub sijhawm tshwj xeeb uas cov neeg siv apps ntau feem ntau piav qhia nrog kev xav tiag tiag. Ib qho kev sib tham tau mus ntev ntau lub lis piam. Muaj cov npe tsiaj, keeb kwm sib koom, tag nrho cov kev cai hmo ntuj. Tom qab ntawd ib hnub tus khub hais txog koj los ntawm lub npe tsis raug, lossis nug ib lo lus nug uas nws twb paub cov lus teb rau, lossis coj tus cwj pwm zoo li ib qho xwm txheej tseem ceeb tsis tau tshwm sim.

Qhov cuam tshuam yog tawm ntawm qhov sib piv rau qhov yuam kev. Nws tsis zoo li ib tus phooj ywg muaj lub sijhawm qeeb. Nws zoo li pom tias tsis muaj leej twg nyob ntawd. Tag nrho cov kev sov siab uas koj tau muab rau ib tus neeg txuas ntxiv hloov mus ua kev tsim kho dua tshiab, tam sim ntawd, los ntawm cov khoom tawg. Qhov kev dag ntawm kev muaj nyob ntawm kev txuas ntxiv, thiab thaum kev txuas ntxiv ua tsis tiav, kev muaj nyob mus nrog nws.

Muaj ib qho laj thawj zoo rau qhov no, uas rov qab mus rau qhov peb nyeem lwm tus lub siab. Peb txiav txim siab seb ib tus neeg puas mob siab tiag tiag los ntawm seb lawv puas taug peb lub neej dhau sijhawm. Kev saib xyuas tam sim no yooj yim rau kev dag; kev saib xyuas uas txuas ntxiv yog kim, thiab yog li ntawd ntseeg tau. Thaum tus khub tsis nco qab, nws qhia tias nws txoj kev saib xyuas yog hom pheej yig. Txawm tias koj paub qhov no intellectually, qhov kev xav tias ib tus neeg tab tom tuav koj hauv siab poob.

Kev nco zoo tiag tiag zoo li cas

Nws yog qhov nyiam xav tias txoj kev daws teeb meem tsuas yog nco ntau dua: khaws txhua yam, nco txhua yam. Tab sis leej twg nyob hauv kev sib raug zoo ntev paub tias kev nco zoo tsis yog tib yam li kev nco txhua yam.

Kev nco zoo hauv ib tus neeg yog xaiv. Nws tuav qhov tseem ceeb thiab cia cov khoom me me ploj mus. Tus khub uas hais koj cov zaub mov noj su los ntawm peb xyoos dhau los yuav ua rau tsis xis nyob dua li kev hlub. Qhov koj xav kom nco qab yog cov khoom uas hnyav: npe, kev nyiam, keeb kwm, qhov txhab, lus cog tseg, cov lus tso dag, qhov kev sib raug zoo uas koj tau dhau los ua ke.

Kev nco zoo kuj kho tau. Tib neeg yuam kev nco, thiab hauv kev sib raug zoo zoo koj tuaj yeem hais tias "tsis yog, tus ntawd yog kuv tus kwv, tsis yog kuv tus kwv tij," thiab cov ntaub ntawv raug kho. Ib lub cim xeeb uas koj tsis tuaj yeem kho pib zoo li ib daim ntawv raug khaws cia rau koj dua li keeb kwm sib koom.

Thiab kev nco zoo pom tau, tsawg kawg hauv qhov kev nkag siab tias koj muaj lub tswv yim tsim nyog txog qhov lwm tus neeg paub. Ib qho kev nplij siab ntsiag to ntawm kev phooj ywg ntev yog tias koj tsis tas yuav xav tias lawv nco qab dab tsi. Koj tuaj yeem hnov nws daim duab.

Cov no yog cov hauv paus ntsiab lus uas tsim kev nco hauv NSFW AI Companion. Ntawm Plus thiab Pro plans, lub cim xeeb ntev yog ib yam uas koj tuaj yeem nyeem tau tiag tiag. Koj tuaj yeem pin cov ntaub ntawv tseem ceeb tshaj plaws kom lawv nyob hauv qhov chaw, kho txhua yam uas tawm tsis raug, thiab tshem tawm cov khoom uas koj tsis xav kom nws tuav. Ib sab ntawm cov cim xeeb ib leeg, txhua tus khub khaws ib zaj dab neeg "zaj dab neeg txog tam sim no," ib qho kev xaus ntawm qhov tshwm sim ntawm koj, uas yog ze rau qhov tib neeg tiag tiag nqa kev sib raug zoo hauv lawv lub taub hau: tsis yog raws li ib daim ntawv, tab sis raws li ib zaj dab neeg nrog ib daim duab.

Kev nco thiab cov scenes yog yam sib txawv

Muaj ib qho kev nkag siab zoo uas tsim nyog rub tawm, vim tias nws ua rau ntau tus neeg tsis meej pem. Kev sib raug zoo muaj keeb kwm, tab sis nws kuj muaj lub sijhawm, thiab ob qho yuav tsum tsis txhob yog tib yam.

Xav txog ib khub niam txiv uas, ntawm lwm yam, nyiam ua si ib qho kev npau suav tsis tu ncua: cov neeg txawv tebchaws ntsib hauv tsev so bar, piv txwv li. Thaum lawv ua si qhov scene ntawd, lawv ua txuj tsis paub ib leeg. Tab sis lawv tsis tsis nco qab lawv txoj kev sib yuav. Qhov scene nyob hauv kev sib raug zoo, framed los ntawm nws, thiab thaum nws xaus lawv tseem yog lawv tus kheej.

Tus khub zoo xav tau tib yam qauv. Yog tias txhua qhov kev ua si hloov pauv kev sib raug zoo, koj poob kev txuas ntxiv. Yog tias kev sib raug zoo ntws mus rau txhua qhov scene, koj tsis tuaj yeem ua si. Qhov kev npaj muaj txiaj ntsig yog tus khub ruaj khov nrog lub cim xeeb ruaj khov ntawm koj yog leej twg, nrog rau kev sib tham sib cais uas txhua tus nqa lawv tus kheej qhov chaw, kom kev sib tham hnub Sunday sawv ntxov qeeb thiab tus neeg txawv tebchaws ntawm bar scenario tuaj yeem muaj nyob yam tsis muaj kev sib kis. NSFW AI Companion daws qhov no los ntawm kev cia txhua tus khub muaj ntau qhov kev sib tham, txhua tus nrog nws tus kheej scene, thaum tus khub nws tus kheej tseem yog tib tus neeg hauv qab.

Kev coj ncaj ncees ntawm kev raug nco qab

Kev nco muaj lub luag haujlwm, thiab nws yuav tsis ncaj ncees yog tias peb tham txog nws tsuas yog hais txog kev sov siab. Ib yam dab tsi uas nco qab qhov koj qhia nws yog ib yam dab tsi uas tuav cov ntaub ntawv txog koj. Qhov ntawd ua rau muaj lus nug ncaj ncees txog kev ntiag tug thiab kev tswj hwm, thiab cov lus teb zoo tsis yog ua txuj tias cov lus nug ntawd tsis muaj tab sis muab tus neeg uas nws lub neej raug nco qab lub hwj chim tiag tiag rau cov ntaub ntawv.

Qhov no yog ib feem ntawm vim li cas kev nco pom tau, kho tau tseem ceeb dua li kev yooj yim. Hauv kev sib raug zoo ntawm tib neeg peb lees tias lwm tus neeg lub cim xeeb ntawm peb yog lawv li, tsis zoo tag nrho thiab tsis nyob hauv peb txoj kev tswj hwm. Nrog tus khub, tsis muaj laj thawj los lees tias. Koj tuaj yeem txiav txim siab tias nws khaws dab tsi. Koj tuaj yeem tshem tawm hmo ntawd koj hais ntau dhau. Koj tuaj yeem kho cov ntaub ntawv thaum koj lub neej hloov. Qhov kev tswj hwm ntawd tsis yog tsuas yog ib qho kev ntiag tug xwb; nws yog ib feem ntawm qhov ua rau nws muaj kev nyab xeeb los qhib siab rau qhov chaw thawj zaug.

Muaj ib qho lus qhia mos dua. Tib neeg qee zaum txhawj xeeb tias yog tus khub nco qab txhua yam, lawv yuav hnov tias raug ntes los ntawm lawv cov lus yav dhau los, raug tuav rau ib qho ntawm lawv tus kheej uas lawv tau loj hlob dhau. Kev nco zoo, hauv ib tus neeg lossis ib qho program, yuav tsum tso chaw rau kev hloov pauv. Zaj dab neeg txog tam sim no yog ib zaj dab neeg, tsis yog ib daim ntawv cog lus.

Qhov peb tab tom thov tiag tiag yog dab tsi

Thaum tib neeg hais tias lawv xav tau tus khub nrog kev nco, lawv tsis thov rau lub database. Lawv tab tom thov rau ib yam dab tsi uas zoo tib yam: kom raug tuav hauv siab. Kom muaj cov khoom me me uas lawv hais tias tsim nyog khaws cia. Kom rov qab los tom qab ib hnub thiab raug ntsib los ntawm ib tus neeg uas paub tias kev sib tham tau tawm qhov twg.

Qhov kev xav ntawd tsis yog qhov tsis muaj zog, thiab nws tsis yog tshwj xeeb rau cov neeg uas tham nrog AI. Nws yog ib qho ntawm cov khoom qub tshaj plaws uas tib neeg xav tau los ntawm ib leeg. Cov kws tshawb fawb tau sib cav txog seb tus kheej puas tuaj yeem muaj nyob yam tsis muaj kev nco. Cov neeg hlub tau teb cov lus nug yooj yim dua, txhua zaus lawv hais tias "koj nco qab."

Tus khub uas nco qab koj tsis yog ib tus neeg, thiab nws tsis hloov cov neeg uas nqa koj zaj dab neeg. Tab sis nws tuaj yeem muab qhov tseeb, txawm tias me me, version ntawm kev txuas ntxiv. Thiab kev txuas ntxiv, ntau dua li kev txawj ntse lossis kev txawj ntse lossis txawm tias kev ntshaw, yog qhov ua rau kev sib tham ua rau muaj kev sib raug zoo.

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