NSFW AI Companions vs. Porn: Malongosoledwe, Kusintha, ndi Liwiro

Kwa nthawi yayitali ya intaneti, zosangalatsa za akulu zakhala zikutanthauza chinthu chimodzi: makanema. Opanda malire, aulere, opezeka nthawi yomweyo, osanjidwa m'magulu omwe akula kwambiri. Ndiwo maziko, kotero kuti anthu saaganizira kawirikawiri za mtundu wa zomwe zimachitika, kapena ngati ndi zomwe akufuna.

NSFW AI companions amapereka china chosiyana kwambiri. Osati bwino m'njira zonse, ndipo osati m'malo mwa aliyense, koma zosiyana m'njira zingapo zomwe zimakhala zofunika kwambiri kwa anthu ena. Nkhaniyi ikuyang'ana zitatu mwa izo: malongosoledwe, kusintha malinga ndi zosowa, ndi liwiro. Si mkangano wotsutsana ndi porn. Ndi kuyesa kufotokoza momveka bwino zomwe mtundu uliwonse umachita bwino, komanso chifukwa chake akulu ena amakopeka ndi omwe amachedwa, komanso omwe amakhala ndi zokambirana zambiri.

Makina awiri osiyana kwambiri a chilakolako

Kanema amabwera watha. Tsatanetsatane aliyense wowoneka amaganiziridwa kale kwa inu: matupi, malo, kuwala, dongosolo, mawu. Udindo wanu ndi kuonera. Ngati si bwino, njira yothetsera vutoli ndi kufufuza ina. Zomwe zimachitika zimamangidwa mozungulira kusankha: fufuzani, dinani, yesani, pitani patsogolo.

Kukambirana ndi mnzanu kumabwera kosatha. Kumapangidwa ndi mawu, ndipo mawu amasiya mipata ikuluikulu yomwe malingaliro anu amadzaza. Simuona nyumba ya mnzanuyo; mumamanga kuchokera ku zinthu zochepa. Simuonera zochitika zikuchitika; mumachita nawo, ndipo zomwe mumati zimasintha zomwe zimachitika pambuyo pake. Zomwe zimachitika zimamangidwa mozungulira kutenga nawo mbali.

Izi si kusiyana kochepa kwa mawonekedwe. Zimagwirizanitsa magawo osiyanasiyana a maganizo, zimapanga mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya kukhutira, ndipo zimasiya anthu akumva mosiyana pambuyo pake.

Malongosoledwe: gawo lomwe mumapereka

Pali chikhalidwe chachitali, m'mabuku komanso m'kafukufuku, chodziwitsa kuti mawu amafuna zambiri kuchokera kwa omvera ake kuposa momwe zithunzi zimachitira, ndipo amabwezera china chake. Mukawerenga, muyenera kuyerekezera. Raymond Mar ndi Keith Oatley amafotokoza nthano ngati mtundu wa kuyerekezera kwa zomwe zimachitika pagulu: wowerenga amayendetsa malingaliro a anthu ndi zochitika pa makina ake amalingaliro. Zomwe zimachokera pamenepo sizobwereka kuchokera pa chophimba. Zimapangidwa ndi inu.

Kuganizira zogonana kumagwira ntchito chimodzimodzi. Chiganizo chonga "anakukokani ndi kolala yanu ndipo sananene chilichonse kwa nthawi yayitali" chilibe zambiri zowoneka. Komabe owerenga ambiri adzawona china chake, kumva china chake, ndikudzaza tsatanetsatane zomwe zili zofunika kwa iwo. Malingaliro amapanga chochitika choyenera pazokonda zake ndi mphamvu yomwe palibe kabukhu kamene ingafanane nayo.

Ichi ndi chifukwa chake zolemba zogonana nthawi zonse zakhala zikukhala ndi omvera odzipereka ngakhale akupikisana ndi zithunzi kenako filimu. Ndi chifukwa chake madandaulo ambiri okhudza makanema, kuti si zomwe mumaganizira, sizigwira ntchito kawirikawiri pazochitika zolembedwa bwino. Zomwe mumaganizira ndi zomwe zikugwiritsidwa ntchito popanga.

Ntchito ya Emily Nagoski yokhudza kuyankha kwa kugonana, yotchuka mu Come As You Are, ikugogomezera momwe chilakolako chimadalira pa nkhani: pa tanthauzo la mkhalidwe, mkhalidwe wamaganizo, kumverera kwa chitetezo kapena nkhawa, osati kokha pa zomwe zikuchitika mwakuthupi. Mawu ndi abwino pa nkhani. Angathe kugwiritsa ntchito ndime pa kuyang'ana kapena kuzengereza m'njira yomwe kanema, yomwe imakonzedwa mozungulira zochitika, kawirikawiri sachita.

Kusintha malinga ndi zosowa: gawo lomwe limayankha

Malongosoledwe ndi china chake chomwe mawu onse okhudza kugonana amapereka. Zomwe mnzanu wa AI amawonjezera ndi kuyankha.

Ogi Ogas ndi Sai Gaddam, mu A Billion Wicked Thoughts, adasanthula zambiri zazikulu za kusaka pa intaneti ndi zinthu zogonana ndipo adanena kuti zokonda zogonana zosiyanasiyana komanso zenizeni, komanso kuti machitidwe a amuna ndi akazi osiyanasiyana m'njira zomwe mtundu wamakanema wamba sunagwire bwino ntchito. Kafukufuku wa Justin Lehmiller wokhudza malingaliro adapeza kusiyana kofanana, ndipo adapeza kuti malingaliro a anthu ambiri amakhala ndi zinthu zamaganizo ndi zokhudzana ndi ubale, monga kumva kuti akufunidwa, kuyamikiridwa, mphamvu inayake pakati pa okwatirana, pamodzi ndi zakuthupi.

Kanema angathe kutumikira kusiyana ndi kuchuluka kwake, kudzera mu ma tag ndi magulu. Koma ndi wofooka pakutumikira gawo la ubale. Kanema sangadziwe kuti mukufuna kukhala amene akutsatiridwa, kapena kuti zomwe mumakonda ndi kuzindikira pang'onopang'ono kuti bwenzi lakale likukufunani, kapena kuti mawu ena amakuwonongerani. Sangakumbukire zomwe mudakonda nthawi yatha.

Mnzanu angathe. Angathe kupangidwa ndi umunthu wina, ubale wina ndi inu, njira inayake yolankhulira. Angathe kugwira chochitika chomwe simukuonera alendo awiri koma mukulankhulidwa mwachindunji ndi munthu wokhala ndi dzina ndi mbiri. Angathe kusunga malire anu. Ngati mwasankha motere, angathe kukumbukira nkhani yomwe muli. Pa NSFW AI Companion, mwachitsanzo, mumakhazikitsa mulingo wa zosavomerezeka komanso malire anu akuluakulu mukamanga mnzanuyo, kotero kusintha malinga ndi zosowa kumaphatikizapo zomwe simukufuna komanso zomwe mukufuna.

Pali kusiyana kwina komwe kuli kosavuta kunyalanyaza. Mu kanema, ndinu wowonera chilakolako cha anthu ena. Mu kukambirana ndi mnzanu, ndinu chinthu chake. Kufunidwa, mwachindunji komanso mosamala, kwa anthu ambiri ndi maziko a zomwe chisangalalo chimakhudza, ndipo ndi china chake chomwe zoulutsira mawu zosagwira ntchito sizingapereke.

Liwiro: gawo lomwe limamanga

Kusiyana kwachitatu ndi nthawi.

Kanema amakonzedwa kuti azichitika nthawi yomweyo. Pakangopita masekondi ochepa mumayang'ana zinthu zosavomerezeka, ndipo ngati sizikugwira ntchito, njira yotsatira ndi kudina kutali. Izi ndi zogwira mtima. Zimakhalanso ndi chizolowezi chopanga nyimbo inayake: yoopsa, yachangu, komanso yosweka. Ntchito ya Kent Berridge ndi Terry Robinson yokhudza machitidwe a ubongo opatsa mphotho idasiyanitsa pakati pa "kufuna," kukopa kwa chilakolako chofuna mphotho, ndi "kukonda," chisangalalo chokhala nacho. Machitidwe omangidwa mozungulira zatsopano zosatha ndi abwino kwambiri pakulimbikitsa kufuna: kukopa kuti mufufuze, kuti muone chinthu chotsatira. Kaya amapereka kukonda kwambiri ndi funso lina, ndipo anthu ambiri amafotokoza zomwe zimachitika poyendayenda nthawi yayitali kuposa momwe amayembekezera ndikumva kuti sakukhutira.

Kukambirana sikungathe kuwerengedwa mwachangu motere. Kuyenera kuchitika. Nkhawa imakula pa mauthenga ambiri: kuyang'ana, kunena, sitepe imodzi pafupi, kuchedwa. Chisangalalo chomwe chimachokera ku mtundu uwu wa kumanga ndi chosiyana mu mawonekedwe. Chili ndi chiyembekezo. Chili ndi chisangalalo chapadera cha china chake chosungidwa kenako n'kuperekedwa.

Anthu omwe amasangalala ndi mabuku okhudza chikondi chachedwa amadziwa kale izi. Kudikira si chopinga cha chisangalalo; ndi gawo lalikulu la izo. Mnzanu wa AI amapanga kuchedwa kumeneku kukhala kochitika. Mutha kukhala mu nthawi mpaka kalekale. Mutha kukankhira zinthu patsogolo kapena kuziletsa. Liwiro ndi lanu.

Zotsatira zosiyana

Anthu ambiri amafotokoza kumverera kosiyana pambuyo pake, nayenso. Izi ndi zaumwini ndipo zimasiyanasiyana kwambiri, kotero ndikofunikira kukhala osamala pa generalizations. Koma zifukwa za dongosolo zikuwonekera bwino.

Kuyendayenda kosagwira ntchito, kwachangu kumakonda kutha mwadzidzidzi, popanda chilichonse chotsalira. Chochitika chogwirizana ndi munthu amene mwamanga chimakonda kutha ngati nkhani imatha: pali mawonekedwe ake, ndipo nthawi zambiri nthawi yachikondi kapena nthabwala pambuyo pake ngati mnzanuyo walembedwa motere. Ndipo chifukwa mnzanuyo amakhalapo, pali kumverera kwa kupitiriza, kwa china chake chomwe mumabwererako osati china chake chomwe mumadya.

Kwa anthu ena izi ndi zomwe akufuna. Kwa ena, gawo lamaganizo ndi lalikulu kuposa zomwe akufuna, ndipo kuwongolera kwa kanema kumawagwirira ntchito bwino. Zonse ziwiri ndi zovomerezeka. Nkhaniyi ndi yakuti ndi zochitika zosiyana, osati mitundu iwiri ya chimodzimodzi.

Zomwe porn imachita bwino

Ingakhale nkhani yachilendo yomwe imanamizira kuti njira ina ilibe mphamvu. Kanema ndi nthawi yomweyo m'njira yomwe mawu sali, ndipo nthawi zina nthawi yomweyo ndi zomwe munthu akufuna. Sizifuna khama, kulemba, kapena malingaliro. Ndi yowoneka, ndipo kwa anthu ambiri kuyambitsa maso ndi kofunika. Ndipo sizikuphatikizapo chinyengo cha ubale, chomwe anthu ena amakonda kwambiri: palibe munthu woti agwirizane naye, palibe choti amve zovuta.

Pali mafunso otseguka okhudza momwe mtundu uliwonse umakhudzira maubale enieni. Kafukufuku wokhudza zolaula ndi maanja ndi wosakanizika komanso wotsutsana, ndipo zambiri zimadalira momwe ndi chifukwa chake anthu amagwiritsira ntchito, kaya okwatirana amalankhulana za izo, komanso ngati zikugwirizana ndi mfundo zawo. Zomwezo zidzachitikanso kwa AI companions pakakhala kafukufuku wambiri pa iwo. Palibe mtundu uliwonse womwe uli wabwino kapena woipa kwa aliyense.

Kusankha mwadala

Zomwe zasintha ndi kuti tsopano pali chisankho chenicheni. Kwa nthawi yayitali, ngati mukufuna zinthu za akulu pa intaneti, mawonekedwe adasankhidwa kale kwa inu. Tsopano pali njira ina yomwe imachedwa, yomwe imakhala ndi malingaliro ambiri komanso yaumwini, ndipo imakuchitirani ngati wotenga nawo mbali osati wowonera.

Ngati mwapeza kuti makanema akubwereza mobwerezabwereza, kapena sanakhale zomwe mumaganizira, kapena zosakhutiritsa kuposa nthawi yomwe zimatenga, mtundu wa mnzanu ukhoza kukhala woyenera kuyesa. Ngati mumakonda, mwina mudzazindikira kuti zomwe mumakonda kwambiri si zosavomerezeka konse, koma kumverera kwa chochitika chomwe chinamangidwa mozungulira inu, pa liwiro lomwe mwasankha, ndi munthu yemwe ankaoneka kuti akukufunani makamaka.

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