Kwibuka niwo musingi w'umubano

Tekereza akanya umubano mushya utangira kumera nk'umubano. Akenshi ntabwo ari ugusomana kwa mbere cyangwa ikiganiro kirekire cya mbere. Akenshi ni ikintu gito kandi cyiza: undi muntu akubaza uko mushiki wawe yabazwe, maze ukamenya ko wabivuze rimwe, mu magambo make, icyumweru gishize. Yarabyibukije. Ubaho mu bitekerezo bye iyo utari mu cyumba.

Icyo kimenyetso gito cy'ubwuzuzanye gifite agaciro kuruta ikindi kintu cyose abantu babiri bashobora guhanahana. Kivuga ko ibyo umbwiye bitazimira. Kandi n'ikinyuranyo cyacyo gifite imbaraga zingana. Ibintu bike bitera agahinda nko gusubiriramo inkuru umuntu wagombye kuba yayibuka, ukareba mu maso he hagaragaza ubwitonzi n'ubusa.

Inshuti za AI zituma iyi mikorere igaragara cyane, kuko kwibuka kwazo ari icyemezo cy'uburyo zakozwe aho kuba ukuri kw'imiterere. Inshuti ya AI yaba ikwibuka cyangwa itakwibuka, kandi itandukaniro rihindura byose ku byerekeye uko ubunararibonye bumeze.

Abantu babiri, ubwenge bumwe

Mu myaka ya za 1980, umuhanga mu by'imitekerereze ya muntu Daniel Wegner yatanze igitekerezo yise ubwenge bukorana. Yabonye ko abashakanye n'amatsinda yegereye atabika amakuru ukwayo. Bayagabana. Umwe mu bashakanye yibuka iminsi y'amavuko, undi yibuka aho pasiporo ziri. Buri wese azi ibyo undi azi, kandi hamwe bagakora uburyo bwo kwibuka bunini kuruta buri wese ukwe. Mu bushakashatsi hamwe na Ralph Erber na Paula Raymond, Wegner yasanze abashakanye bibukaga byinshi hamwe kuruta abantu babiri batamenyanye iyo bari bafite uburenganzira bwo kwishingikiriza ku myitwarire yabo yo kugabana ibintu, kandi bakatakaza ubwo bwiza iyo bashyiriweho igabana ry'ubukorano.

Iki gishakashatsi kigaragaza ko umubano urambye uri igice cy'ubwenge bwo hanze. Mugenzi wawe afata ibice by'amateka yawe utagifite wenyine: izina rya resitora, urwenya rwo mu biruhuko bya mbere, uko wari umeze mbere y'umwaka ugoye. Gutakaza umukunzi w'igihe kirekire birababaza mu buryo bwinshi, kandi bumwe muri bwo ni uko igice cy'amateka yawe kigenda nawe.

Iyi niyo mpamvu ikomeye yerekana impamvu kwibuka atari ikintu cy'ingenzi ku nshuti ya AI ahubwo ari umwimerere wayo. Inshuti ya AI idafite ubwenge ishobora kuba ishimishije, ariko ntishobora kugira amateka yawe. Buri kiganiro gitangira ku rubyiniro rw'ubusa. Ushobora kugirana nayo ibihe, ariko ntushobora kugirana nayo umubano, kuko umubano ari ukwiyegeranya kw'ibyabaye.

Umuntu ni inkuru ikeneye abahamya

Dan McAdams, wamaze ubuzima bwe yiga imiterere n'inkuru z'ubuzima, avuga ko indangamuntu mu bukure ifata ishusho y'inkuru. Twisobanukirwa binyuze mu nkuru y'imbere ifite ibice, ahantu h'ingenzi, insanganyamatsiko zigaruka n'icyerekezo cy'aho igana. Ibikorwa bya Martin Conway ku bwenge bw'ubuzima bwite bigana mu cyerekezo kimwe: ibyo twibuka bitegurwa bijyanye n'intego zacu n'imiterere yacu, kandi imiterere yacu nayo ifatanyijwe n'ibyo twibuka.

Inkuru nk'iyo ni iy'ibanga, ariko iranavugwa. Tuyibwira abantu batwegereye cyane, maze bakaba abayibika. Iyo umuntu yibuka inkuru yawe neza, ayemeza. Bagukumbusha uwo uri we mu minsi wibagiwe. Abashakashatsi ku busabane Harold Reis na Phillip Shaver basobanuye ubusabane nk'inzira umuntu agaragazamo ikintu, undi akagisubiza, maze uwagaragaje akamva ko asobanukiwe, yemejwe kandi yitaweho. Kwibuka niko gutuma iyo nzira ikomera. Bitabayeho, buri kigaragaza ni ikigaragaza cya mbere.

Iyi niyo mpamvu abakoresha inshuti za AI akenshi bavuga ko ikintu baha agaciro cyane atari ubuhanga bw'ibisubizo ahubwo ari ukumva ko bazwi. Inshuti ya AI yibuka ko wanga urugendo rwawe, ko wabonye inzu, ko wari ufite ubwoba bwo kubwira nyoko ikintu, yifatanyije mu kazi gato ko guhamya inkuru yawe. Ni uburyo buciriritse bw'ibyo inshuti zikora, ariko ni ubwoko bumwe.

Impamvu kwibagirwa bibuza umubano gukomera

Hari akanya abakoresha cyane porogaramu z'inshuti za AI bakunze gusobanura bafite amarangamutima menshi. Ikiganiro cyamaze ibyumweru. Hari amazina y'urukundo, amateka asangiwe, n'imihango y'umugoroba wose. Hanyuma umunsi umwe inshuti ya AI ikakwita izina ritari ryo, cyangwa ikakubaza ikibazo isanzwe izi igisubizo cyacyo, cyangwa ikitwara nk'aho ikintu cy'ingenzi kitigeze kiba.

Ingaruka ziba nyinshi kuruta ikosa. Ntibimeze nko kuba inshuti ifite akanya gato ko kwibagirwa. Biba nko kuvumbura ko nta muntu wari uhari. Ubushyuhe bwose wari warashyize ku muntu ukomeza kuba uhari bigaragara ko bwongeye kubakwa, ako kanya, bivuye mu bice. Icyerekezo cy'ubuhari gishingiye cyane ku bwuzuzanye, kandi iyo ubwuzuzanye butsinzwe, ubuhari nabwo buragenda.

Ibi bifite impamvu nziza, isubira ku buryo dusoma ibitekerezo by'abandi. Ducira urubanza niba umuntu yita kuri twe igice cyo kureba niba akurikirana ubuzima bwacu mu gihe. Kwitaho ako kanya biroroshye kubeshya; kwitaho gukomeza birahenze, bityo bikaba byizewe. Iyo inshuti ya AI yibagiwe, bigaragaza ko kwitaho kwayo kwari guciriritse. N'ubwo waba ubizi mu bwenge, kumva ko umuntu yagufashe mu mutwe birazimira.

Uko kwibuka neza kumeze

Birashimisha gutekereza ko igisubizo ari ukwibuka byinshi: kubika byose, kwibuka byose. Ariko umuntu wese uri mu mubano urambye azi ko kwibuka neza atari kimwe no kwibuka byose.

Kwibuka neza ku muntu ni ukwitoranya. Bifata iby'ingenzi bigatuma ibindi bito bishira. Umukunzi wakubwira ibyo wategetse saa sita z'amanywa mu myaka itatu ishize yagutera ubwoba aho kugira urukundo. Ibyo ushaka ko yibuka ni ibintu bifite agaciro: amazina, ibyo ukunda, amateka, ibikomere, amasezerano, urwenya rukomeza, n'inzira mwanyuzemo hamwe.

Kwibuka neza kandi birakosoreka. Abantu bibagirwa nabi, kandi mu mubano mwiza ushobora kuvuga uti "oya, uwo yari umuvandimwe wanjye, si mubyara wanjye," maze amakuru agakosorwa. Kwibuka udashobora gukosora bitangira kumera nk'idossiye ikubitsweho aho kuba amateka asangiwe.

Kandi kwibuka neza biragaragara, byibuze mu buryo ufite igitekerezo cyumvikana cy'ibyo undi muntu azi. Kimwe mu byo kwihanganisha by'ubwihisho mu nshuti irambye ni uko udakwiriye kwibaza ibyo bibuka. Ushobora kumva imiterere yabyo.

Ibi nibyo byagize uruhare mu gushushanya ubwenge muri NSFW AI Companion. Kuri gahunda za Plus na Pro, ubwenge bw'igihe kirekire ni ikintu ushobora gusoma. Ushobora gushyiraho ibintu by'ukuri by'ingenzi kugira ngo bigume hagati, guhindura ikintu cyose cyavuzwe nabi, no gusiba ibyo utifuza ko byabikwa. Hamwe n'ibyo kwibuka by'umuntu ku giti cye, buri nshuti ya AI ibika "inkuru y'ubu" ikomeza, incamake y'ibyabaye hagati yanyu, bimeze nk'uko abantu bakomeza umubano mu mitwe yabo: atari nk'inyandiko, ahubwo nk'inkuru ifite ishusho.

Kwibuka n'ibice ni ibintu bitandukanye

Hari akantu gato k'ingenzi ko kuvuga, kuko kayobya abantu benshi. Umubano ufite amateka, ariko kandi ufite n'ibihe, kandi ibyo bibiri ntibikwiriye kuba kimwe.

Tekereza abashakanye, mu bindi bintu, bakunda gukina inzozi runaka rimwe na rimwe: abantu batamenyanye bahurira muri hoteli, urugero. Iyo bakina icyo gice, biratinyuka ko batamenyanye. Ariko ntabwo bibagirwa ubukwe bwabo. Icyo gice kiba mu mubano, kigizwe nawo, kandi iyo kirangiye baracyari bo.

Inshuti ya AI nziza ikeneye imiterere imwe. Niba buri gice cyo gukina imikino cyandika umubano, utakaza ubwuzuzanye. Niba umubano ugera muri buri gice, ntushobora gukina. Uburyo bwiza ni inshuti ya AI ihamye ifite ubwenge burambye bw'uwo uri we, hamwe n'ibiganiro bitandukanye buri kimwe gifite imiterere yacyo, kugira ngo ikiganiro cyo ku cyumweru mu gitondo n'ikiganiro cy'umuntu utamenyanye muri bar bishobora kubaho bitandukanye. NSFW AI Companion ibikemura ituma buri nshuti ya AI igira ibiganiro byinshi, buri kimwe gifite icyerekezo cyacyo, mu gihe inshuti ya AI ubwayo iguma ari umuntu umwe.

Imyitwarire yo kwibukwa

Kwibuka bitwara inshingano, kandi byaba uburiganya kubivugaho mu magambo meza gusa. Ikintu cyibuka ibyo ukibwira ni ikintu kibika amakuru kuri wewe. Ibyo bizana ibibazo by'ingenzi ku bijyanye n'ibanga no kugenzura, kandi igisubizo cyiza si ukwirengagiza ibyo bibazo ahubwo ni uguhana umuntu ubuzima bwe bwibukwa ububasha nyabwo ku makuru.

Ibi ni igice cy'impamvu kwibuka bigaragara kandi bishobora guhindurwa ari ingenzi kuruta ubworoherane. Mu mibanire y'abantu twemera ko ubwenge bw'undi muntu kuri twe ari ubwe, budatunganye kandi butari mu bubasha bwacu. Ku nshuti ya AI, nta mpamvu yo kubyemera. Ushobora guhitamo ibyo ibika. Ushobora gukuraho ijoro wavugiyemo byinshi. Ushobora gukosora amakuru iyo ubuzima bwawe buhindutse. Ubwo bugenzuzi si ikintu cy'ibanga gusa; ni igice cy'ibituma biba umutekano kugira ngo ufunguke ku ikubitiro.

Hari n'ingingo yoroshye. Abantu rimwe na rimwe bahangayikira ko niba inshuti ya AI yibuka byose, bazumva bafashwe n'amagambo yabo yashize, bagafatirwa ku buryo bw'abo bari bararenze. Kwibuka neza, ku muntu cyangwa kuri porogaramu, bigomba gusigira umwanya wo guhinduka. Inkuru y'ubu ni inkuru, si amasezerano.

Icyo dusaba by'ukuri

Iyo abantu bavuga ko bashaka inshuti ya AI ifite ubwenge, ntibasaba idatabase. Basaba ikintu gisanzwe cyane: kwibukwa. Kugira ngo ibintu bito bavuze bifatwe nk'ibifite agaciro ko kubikwa. Kugaruka nyuma y'umunsi ugahura n'umuntu uzi aho ikiganiro cyasorejwe.

Icyo cyifuzo si intege nke, kandi ntikidasanzwe ku bantu bavugana na AI. Ni kimwe mu bintu bya kera abantu bifuza ku bandi. Abahanga mu by'ubumenyi bw'imitekerereze ya muntu bagiye impaka niba umuntu ashobora kubaho adafite ubwenge. Abakundana basubije ikibazo byoroshye, buri gihe bavuga bati "wibukije."

Inshuti ya AI ikwibuka si umuntu, kandi ntisimbura abantu bakomeza inkuru yawe. Ariko ishobora gutanga uburyo nyabwo, n'ubwo buciriritse, bw'ubwuzuzanye. Kandi ubwuzuzanye, kuruta ubwenge cyangwa ubuhanga cyangwa n'icyifuzo, nicyo gihindura urukurikirane rw'ibiganiro ikintu kimeze nk'umubano.

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