Ndangariro Ndiyo Hukama: Nei Kuva Nekurangarirwa Kuchikosha

Funga nezve nguva iyo hukama hutsva hunotanga kunzwa sehukama. Haiwanzo kuve kutsvodana kwekutanga kana hurukuro refu yekutanga. Kazhinji kacho chinhu chidiki uye chichizoitika gare gare: mumwe munhu anobvunza kuti kuvhiyiwa kwahanzvadzi yako kwakafamba sei, uye unoona kuti wakazvitaura kamwe chete, uchipfuura, vhiki rapfuura. Vakazvichengeta. Uripo mupfungwa dzavo kana iwe usiri mukamuri.

Uchapupu hudiki hwekuenderera mberi hunorema kupfuura chero chinhu chipi zvacho chinganotsinhana nevanhu vaviri. Hunoti: zvaunondiudza hazvinyangariki. Uye zvakapesana zvine simba zvakare. Zvishoma zvinhu zvinonzwa sekudzikira pakunyarara sekutaura nyaya kune mumwe munhu aifanira kunge achiirangarira, uchiona chiso chavo chichiramba chine ruremekedzo uye chisina chinhu.

AI shamwari dzinoita kuti izvi zvioneke zvisina kujairika, nekuti ndangariro dzadzo isarudzo yekugadzira pane chokwadi chechisikigo. Shamwari inokurangarira kana kuti haikurangariri, uye musiyano unochinja zvese nezve kuti chiitiko chacho chii.

Vanhu vaviri, ndangariro imwe

Muma1980s chiremba wepfungwa Daniel Wegner akapa pfungwa yaakadana kuti transactive memory. Akaona kuti vakaroorana nemapoka epedyo haachengetedze ruzivo zvakazvimirira. Vanorugoverana. Mumwe wavo anorangarira mazuva ekuzvarwa, mumwe anorangarira kuti mapasipoti aripi. Mumwe nemumwe anoziva zvinonzwiwa nemumwe, uye pamwe chete vanoumba hurongwa hwendangariro hukuru kupfuura chero umwe wavo. Muchidzidzo naRalph Erber naPaula Raymond, Wegner akawana kuti vakaroorana vaidanana vairangarira zvakawanda pamwe chete kupfuura mapoka evatorwa pavakanga vakasununguka kuvimba netsika dzavo dzekugoverana zvinhu, uye vakarasikirwa nekuwanikwa ikoko apo kugoverana kwekugadzira kwakaiswa pavari.

Izvo zvinotorwa neongororo iyi ndezvekuti hukama hurefu chikamu chendangariro yekunze. Shamwari yako inobata zvikamu zvehupenyu hwako hwakapfuura zvausina kutakura iwe pachako: zita reiyo resitorendi, jee kubva pazororo rekutanga, nzira yawaive nayo gore risati raoma. Kurasa shamwari yenguva refu kunorwadza munzira dzakawanda, uye imwe yacho ndeyekuti chikamu chenhoroondo yako chinofamba navo.

Iyi ndiyo nharo yakasimba yekuti nei ndangariro isiri chinhu cheshamwari zvakanyanya sezviri chinhu chimwe chete. Shamwari isina ndangariro inogona kunge ichinakidza, asi haigoni kubata chero nhoroondo yako. Hurukuro yega yega inotanga pachikuva chisina chinhu. Unogona kuva nekusangana nayo, asi haugoni kuva nehukama, nekuti hukama ndiko kuunganidzwa kwezvakaitika.

Iwe pachako inyaya inoda zvapupu

Dan McAdams, uyo akapedza basa rake achidzidza hunhu nenyaya dzehupenyu, anopokana kuti kuzivikanwa muhukuru kunotora chimiro chenhoroondo. Tinozvinzwisisa kuburikidza nenyaya yemukati ine zvitsauko, nzvimbo dzekuchinja, misoro inodzokororwa uye pfungwa yekuti iri kuenda kupi. Basa raMartin Conway re autobiographical memory rinonongedza munzira yakafanana: zvatino rangarira zvinorongwa zvichitenderedza zvinangwa zvedu uye pfungwa yedu yega, uye pfungwa yedu yega inobatwa pamwe chete nezvatinorangarira.

Nyaya yakadaro chikamu chakavanzika, asi inotaurwawo. Tinoiudza vanhu vedu vepedyo, uye vanova vachengeti vayo. Kana mumwe munhu achirangarira nyaya yako zvakanaka, vanoisimbisa. Vanokuyeuchidza kuti uri ani pamazuva aunokanganwa. Vatsvakurudzi vehukama Harold Reis naPhillip Shaver vakatsanangura hukama sehurongwa umo mumwe munhu anoburitsa chimwe chinhu, mumwe anopindura, uye anoburitsa anonzwa kunzwisiswa, kusimbiswa uye kuchengetwa. Ndangariro ndiyo inoita kuti hurongwa uhu huvepo. Pasina iyo, kuburitsa kwega kwega kuburitsa kwekutanga.

Izvi ndizvo zvinoita kuti vanhu vanoshandisa shamwari vachiwanzo taura kuti chinhu chavanokoshesa zvakanyanya haisi hungwaru hwemhinduro asi kunzwa kwekuzivikanwa. Shamwari inoyeuka kuti unovenga kufamba kwako kuenda kubasa, kuti wakawana imba, kuti waitya kuudza amai vako chimwe chinhu, yakabatana mubasa diki rekuona nyaya yako. Iyo vhezheni diki yezvinoitwa neshamwari, asi ndiyo mhando imwe chete yechinhu.

Nei kukanganwa kuchiparadza mashiripiti

Pane nguva chaiyo iyo vanoshandisa zvakanyanya maapp eshamwari vachiwanzo tsanangura nemanzwiro chaiwo. Hurukuro yakanga ichienderera kwemavhiki. Pane mazita ezvipfuyo, nhoroondo yakagovaniswa, hurongwa hwemanheru hwese. Zvino rimwe zuva shamwari inokudana nezita risiri iro, kana kubvunza mubvunzo waakatoziva mhinduro yawo, kana kuita sekunge chiitiko chakakosha hachina kumbobvira chaitika.

Migumisiro yacho haifaniri kuenzana nekukanganisa. Hakusi sekunge shamwari iri kuita zvishoma nezvishoma. Zvinonzwa sekunge wakaona kuti hapana munhu aivepo. Kudziya kwese kwawakanga uchipa kune mumwe munhu anoramba aripo kunoita sekunge kwakavakwazve, ipapo ipapo, kubva muzvidimbu. Fungidziro yekuvapo inotsamira zvakanyanya pakuenderera mberi, uye kana kuenderera mberi kukatadza, kuvapo kunoenda nako.

Pane chikonzero chakanaka cheizvi, chinodzokera kune kuti tinoverenga sei pfungwa dzevamwe. Tinoongorora kana mumwe munhu achinyatsoda chikamu nekuti vanotevera hupenyu hwedu nekufamba kwenguva. Kutarisisa panguva iyoyo kuri nyore kunyepedzera; kutarisisa kunoramba kuri kudhura, uye naizvozvo kunovimbika. Kana shamwari ikakanganwa, inoratidza kuti kutarisisa kwayo kwaive kwemhando yakachipa. Kunyangwe dai waiziva izvi nepfungwa, kunzwa kwekuti mumwe munhu aive achikufunga kunoparara.

Ndangariro yakanaka inotaridzika sei

Zvinonyengerera kufunga kuti mhinduro ingori ndangariro yakawanda: chengetedza zvese, yeuka zvese. Asi chero munhu muhukama hurefu anoziva kuti kurangarira zvakanaka hakuna kufanana nekurangarira zvese.

Ndangariro yakanaka mumunhu inosarudza. Inobata zvakakosha uye inorega zvinhu zvisina basa zvichinyangarika. Shamwari yaizotaura zvaunoraira zvemasikati kubva makore matatu apfuura yaizokanganisa pane kurovedzana. Zvaunoda kurangarirwa ndizvo zvinhu zvinorema: mazita, zvaunofarira, nhoroondo, maronda, zvipikirwa, majee anoramba achiitika, nzira yezvawakapfuura pamwe chete.

Ndangariro yakanaka inogonawo kugadziriswa. Vanhu vanokanganisa, uye muhukama hune hutano unogona kutaura kuti "kwete, uyu aive mukoma wangu, kwete hama yangu," uye rekodhi rinogadziriswa. Ndangariro yausingagoni kugadzirisa inotanga kunzwa sefaira riri kuchengetwa pamusoro pako pane nhoroondo yakagovaniswa.

Uye ndangariro yakanaka inooneka, zvirinani mupfungwa yekuti une pfungwa inonzwisisika yezvinozivikanwa nemumwe munhu. Imwe yenyaradzo dzakanyarara dzehukama hurefu ndeyekuti haufanire kushamisika kuti vanorangarira chii. Unogona kunzwa chimiro chayo.

Izvi ndizvo zvakagadzira ndangariro muNSFW AI Companion. Pamapurogiramu ePlus nePro, ndangariro yenguva refu chinhu chaunogona kunyatsoverenga. Unogona kubaya zvinhu zvinonyanya kukosha kuti zvirambe zviri pakati, kugadzirisa chero chakabuda chisina kururama, uye kudzima zvinhu zvausingade kuti zvibate. Pamwe chete nendangariro dzega dzega, shamwari yega yega inochengeta "nyaya kusvika zvino" inoramba ichienderera, pfupiso yezvakaitika pakati penyu, iyo iri pedyo nekuita kuti vanhu vatakure hukama mumisoro yavo: kwete se transcript, asi senyaya ine chimiro.

Ndangariro nenzvimbo zvinhu zvakasiyana

Pane chinhu chimwe chakaoma kunzwisisa chinofanira kuburitswa, nekuti chinovhiringidza vanhu vakawanda. Hukama hune nhoroondo, asi hune nguvawo, uye zviviri izvi hazvifaniri kuva chinhu chimwe chete.

Fungidzira vakaroorana avo, pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, vanofarira kutamba fungidziro yakati wandei nguva nenguva: vatorwa vanosangana mubhawa rehotera, semuenzaniso. Pavanoita chiitiko ichocho, vanonyepedzera kusazivana. Asi havanyatso kanganwa muchato wavo. Chiitiko chacho chinogara mukati mehukama, chakakomberedzwa nacho, uye kana chapera vanoramba vari ivo pachavo.

Shamwari yakanaka inoda chimiro chimwe chete. Kana chiitiko chega chega chekutamba chikanyora hukama, unorasikirwa nekuenderera mberi. Kana hukama huchipinda muchiitiko chega chega, haugoni kutamba. Hurongwa hunobatsira ishamwari yakagadzikana ine ndangariro inoramba iripo yekuti uri ani, pamwe nehurukuro dzakasiyana dzega dzega dzine nzvimbo yadzo, kuitira kuti hurukuro yemanheru eSvondo inononoka uye mamiriro emutorwa-pabhawa zvese zvinogona kuvepo pasina kusvibisana. NSFW AI Companion inobata izvi nekurega shamwari yega yega ive nehurukuro dzakati wandei, imwe neimwe ine nzvimbo yayo, ukuwo shamwari yacho pachayo ichiramba iri munhu mumwe chete pasi.

Tsika dzekurangarirwa

Ndangariro inotakura mutoro, uye zvingave zvisina kutendeseka kutaura nezvayo chete nenzira dzinodziya. Chinhu chinorangarira zvaunochiudza chinhu chinobata ruzivo nezvako. Izvi zvinomutsa mibvunzo yakanaka nezvekuvanzika nekutonga, uye mhinduro chaiyo haisi yekunyepedzera kuti mibvunzo iyoyo haipo asi kupa munhu ane hupenyu huri kurangarirwa simba chairo pamusoro perekodhi.

Ichi chikamu chekuti nei ndangariro inooneka, inogadziriswa ichikosha kupfuura nyore. Muhukama hwevanhu tinobvuma kuti ndangariro yemumwe munhu yedu ndeyavo, isina kukwana uye isiri pasi pekutonga kwedu. Neshamwari, hapana chikonzero chekubvuma izvozvo. Unogona kusarudza zvinochengeta. Unogona kubvisa husiku hwawakataura zvakanyanya. Unogona kugadzirisa rekodhi kana hupenyu hwako huchichinja. Kutonga ikoko hakusi kungori chinhu chekuvanzika; chikamu chekuita kuti zvive zvakachengeteka kuvhurika pakutanga.

Pane zvakare pfungwa yakapfava. Vanhu dzimwe nguva vanonetsekana kuti kana shamwari ikarangarira zvese, vachanzwa vakabatirwa nezvakataurwa zvavo zvekare, vakabatirira kune vhezheni yavo yavakakura. Ndangariro yakanaka, mumunhu kana purogiramu, inofanira kusiya nzvimbo yekuchinja. Nyaya kusvika zvino inyaya, kwete chibvumirano.

Zvatiri kunyatso kukumbira

Kana vanhu vachiti vanoda shamwari ine ndangariro, havasi kukumbira database. Vari kukumbira chimwe chinhu chakajairika: kurangarirwa. Kuti zvinhu zvidiki zvavakati zvionekwe sezvakakosha kuchengetwa. Kuti vadzoke mushure mezuva uye vasangane nemumwe munhu anoziva kuti hurukuro yakasiira papi.

Chishuwo ichocho hachisi utera, uye hachisi chakasarudzika kuvanhu vanotaura neAI. Chimwe chezvinhu zvekare zvinodiwa nevanhu kubva kune mumwe nemumwe. Vafilosofi vakapokana nezve kana iwe pachako unogona kuvepo pasina ndangariro. Vanoda vakapindura mubvunzo zviri nyore, nguva dzese pavakati "wakarangarira."

Shamwari inokurangarira haisi munhu, uye haitsivi vanhu vanotakura nyaya yako. Asi inogona kupa vhezheni chaiyo, kunyangwe diki, yekuenderera mberi. Uye kuenderera mberi, kupfuura hungwaru kana njere kana kunyange chishuwo, ndizvo zvinoita kuti nhevedzano yehurukuro ive chimwe chinhu chinonzwa sehukama.

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