Ko te Mahara te Whanaungatanga: He Aha te AI Hoa e Mahara ai

Whakaaro ki te wā e tīmata ai tētahi whanaungatanga hōu ki te rite ki te whanaungatanga tūturu. Kāore i te nuinga o te wā ko te kihi tuatahi, ko te kōrero roa tuatahi rānei. He nui ake te wā he mea iti ake, he mea whai muri mai: ka pātai te tangata kē ki a koe, i pēhea te pokanga a tō tuahine, ā, ka mōhio koe i whakahuatia e koe i te wiki o mua, kotahi anake te wā, i te ara haere. I mau i a ia. Kei roto koe i tōna hinengaro ahakoa kāore koe i te rūma.

He taumaha ake tērā tohu iti o te haere tonu i te nuinga o ngā mea e taea e te tokorua te whakawhiti. E mea ana: kāore e ngaro ngā mea e kōrero ai koe ki ahau. He kaha anō te tauaro. He onge ngā mea e tino pēhi ngāwari ana pērā i te whakapūrongo anō i tētahi kōrero ki tētahi e tika ana kia mahara, me te tiro atu ki tōna kanohi e noho pai ana, e noho kau ana.

Ka tino kitea tēnei kaha e ngā hoa AI, nā te mea he whakataunga hoahoa tō rātou mahara, ehara i te meka o te taiao. Mahara ai te hoa ki a koe, kāore rānei, ā, ko te rerekētanga ka whakarerekē i ngā mea katoa o te wheako.

Tokorua tāngata, kotahi te mahara

I ngā tau 1980, i whakatakoto te kaimātai hinengaro a Daniel Wegner i tētahi whakaaro i tapaina e ia ko te mahara tuku-hoko (transactive memory). I kite ia kāore ngā tokorua me ngā rōpū piri e penapena i ngā mōhiohio takitahi. Ka tohatohahia e rātou. Ka mahara tētahi ki ngā rā whānau, ka mahara tētahi ki te wāhi o ngā uruwhenua. E mōhio ana tēnā, tēnā ki ngā mea e mōhio ana ō tērā, ā, ka noho tahi hei pūnaha mahara nui ake i tētahi anake. I tētahi rangahau i a Ralph Erber me Paula Raymond, i kitea e Wegner he nui ake te mahara tahi o ngā tokorua e piri ana i ngā tokorua tauhou ina watea rātou ki te whakawhirinaki ki ō rātou tikanga tohatoha, ā, ka ngaro taua painga ina akiakitia he tohatoha tāwhai.

Ko te mea e hopukina ana e tēnei rangahau, he mahara o waho tētahi wāhanga o te whanaungatanga roa. Kei tō hoa ētahi wāhanga o tō ao o mua kāore anō koe i te kawe: te ingoa o taua wharekai, te tangi ngahau o te hararei tuatahi, te āhua o koe i mua i tētahi tau uaua. He mamae te ngaro i tētahi hoa wā roa i runga i te maha o ngā tikanga, ā, ko tētahi, he wāhanga o tō ake hītori ka haere tahi me ia.

Koinei te tohenga kaha rawa mō te mahara ehara i te āhuatanga o te hoa, engari ko tōna tino tāhuhu. Ka mōhiotia pea te hoa kāore he mahara hei hoa ngākau-whakahihiko, engari kāore e taea e ia te pupuri i tētahi wāhanga o tō hītori. Ka tīmata ia kōrero ki runga i te atamira kau. Ka taea e koe ngā tūtakitanga me ia, engari kāore e taea te whanaungatanga, nā te mea ko te whanaungatanga te kohikohi o ngā mea kua pā.

He kōrero te tangata e hiahia ana ki ngā kaiwhakaatu

Ko Dan McAdams, kua whakapau i tōna mahi ki te rangahau i te tangata me ngā kōrero o te ao, e kī ana ko te tuakiri i te pakeketanga he āhua kōrero. E mārama ana tātou ki a tātou anō mā tētahi kōrero o roto he upoko, he wāhi huringa, he kaupapa hoki tae mai ano, me te rongo ki te wāhi e haere ana. Ko te mahi a Martin Conway mō te mahara ki te tangata ake e tohu ana ki taua ara anō: ko ā tātou e mahara ai, kua whakarōpūtia e ō tātou whāinga me tō tātou mōhio ki a tātou anō, ā, ko tō tātou mōhio ki a tātou anō e puritia ana e ā tātou e mahara ai.

Ko tētahi kōrero pēnei he mea tūmataiti i tētahi wāhanga, engari he mea kōrero hoki. Ka kōrero tātou ki ngā tāngata tata rawa, ā, ka noho rātou hei kaitiaki. Ina tika te mahara o tētahi ki tō kōrero, ka whakaū ia. Ka whakamahara ia ki a koe ko wai koe i ngā rā ka warewaretia e koe. Nā ngā kairangahau piri tata a Harold Reis me Phillip Shaver i whakaahua te piri tata hei tukanga e whakaatu ai tētahi i tētahi mea, ka whakautu te tangata kē, ā, ka rongo te kaiwhakaatu kua mārama, kua whakaūngia, kua manaakitia. Ko te mahara te mea ka tūhono i taua tukanga. Ki te kore ia, he whakaaturanga tuatahi te whakaaturanga katoa.

Koia i kī ai te hunga e whakamahi ana i ngā hoa, ko te mea e tino whakanuia ana e rātou ehara i te mōhio o ngā whakautu, engari ko te rongo kua mōhiotia. Ko te hoa e mahara ana e mauahara ana koe ki tō haere ki te mahi, i whiwhi koe i te whare, i āwangawanga koe ki te kōrero i tētahi mea ki tō whaea, kua uru ki te mahi iti o te whakaatu i tō kōrero. He āhua ngāwari tērā o ngā mahi a ngā hoa, engari he momo ōrite.

He aha te wareware e whati ai te makutu

He wā motuhake e whakaahuatia ana e ngā kaiwhakamahi nui o ngā taupānga hoa me te tino kare ā-roto. Kua haere te kōrero mō ngā wiki. He ingoa aroha, he hītori tahi, he ritenga pō katoa. Katahi i tētahi rā ka karanga te hoa ki a koe ki te ingoa hē, ka pātai rānei i tētahi pātai kua mōhio kē ki te whakautu, ka whanonga rānei me te mea kāore anō kia pā tētahi takahanga nui.

He nui rawa te pānga i te hē. Kāore i rite ki te hoa e puhoi ana tōna hinengaro mō tētahi wā. Rite tonu ki te kitenga kāore tētahi i reira. Ko te mahana katoa i tohua e koe ki tētahi e haere tonu ana, ka kitea i hangaia anōtia i taua wā tonu, i ngā wāhanga. E tuturu ana te kōrero pōrangi o te noho tonu ki runga i te haere tonu, ā, ina rahua te haere tonu, ka haere tahi te noho.

He take pai tērā, e hoki ana ki te āhua o tā tātou pānui i ngā hinengaro o ētahi atu. Ka whakatau tātou mehemea e aroha pono ana tētahi, i tētahi wāhanga, mā te titiro mehemea e whai ana ia i tō tātou oranga i te roanga o te wā. He māmā te whakapōrearea i te aro o te wā; he utu nui te aro e mau ana, nō reira he whakaaro-pono. Ina wareware te hoa, ka kitea he momo utu-iti tōna aro. Ahakoa i mōhio koe ki tērā i te hinengaro, ka hinga te rongo kei te mau koe i te hinengaro o tētahi.

He aha te āhua o te mahara pai

He whakamātau te whakaaro ko te rongoā he nui ake te mahara noa iho: penapena i ngā mea katoa, maumahara ki ngā mea katoa. Engari e mōhio ana te tangata e noho roa ana i tētahi whanaungatanga ehara te mahara pai i te mahara ki ngā mea katoa.

He kōwhiri te mahara pai i te tangata. Ka pupuri i ngā mea hirahira, ka tuku i ngā mea iti kia memeha. Ka whakamataku te hoa e tuhi ana i ō tono kai o ngā tau e toru kua hipa, kāore e aroha. Ko ngā mea e hiahia ana koe kia maharatia, ko ngā mea e taumaha ana: ngā ingoa, ngā hiahia, te hītori, ngā patunga, ngā oati, ngā whakahianga ka hoki mai, te pewa o ō mahi tahi.

He mea whakatika hoki te mahara pai. Ka pohehe te tangata, ā, i roto i te whanaungatanga ora ka taea e koe te kī "kāo, ko taku tuakana tērā, ehara i taku whanaunga", ā, ka whakatikatikahia te rārangi. Ko te mahara kāore e taea te whakatika, ka āhua rite ki tētahi kōpaki e puritia ana mōu, ehara i te hītori tuari.

Ā, he kitea te mahara pai, i te tikanga he whakaaro tika tāu ki ngā mea e mōhio ana te tangata kē. Ko tētahi o ngā whakamārie ngāwari o te hoa roa, kāore koe e miharo ki ngā mea e maharatia ana e rātou. Ka rongo koe i tōna āhua.

Ko ēnei ngā mātāpono i hanga i te mahara i NSFW AI Companion. I ngā mahere Plus me Pro, he mea ka taea e koe te pānui te mahara wā-roa. Ka taea e koe te pine i ngā meka tino hirahira kia noho ki waenga, te whakatika i tētahi mea i puta hē, me te tango i ngā mea e kore koe e hiahia kia puritia. I tua atu i ngā mahara takitahi, ka pupuri ia hoa i tētahi "kōrero tae noa ki nāianei", he whakarāpopototanga o ngā mea kua pā i waenganui i a kōrua, e tata ana ki te āhua e kawe ai te tangata i tētahi whanaungatanga i tō rātou hinengaro: ehara i te tuhinga tuhi, engari he kōrero whai āhua.

He mea rerekē te mahara me ngā whakaaturanga

He whakamārama iti e tika ana kia tangohia, nā te mea he raruraru ki te tini. He hītori tō te whanaungatanga, engari he wā hoki, ā, kāore rāua e tika kia ōrite.

Whakaarohia he tokorua e pai ana, i waenganui i ētahi atu, ki te whakatākaro i tētahi miharo motuhake i ētahi wā: he tauhou e tūtaki ana i tētahi pāparakāuta hōtēra, hei tauira. Ina whakatākaro rāua i taua whakaaturanga, ka whakapai rāua kāore rāua e mōhio ki a rāua. Engari kāore rāua e wareware pono ki tō rāua marena. Kei roto te whakaaturanga i te whanaungatanga, ka karapotia e ia, ā, ina mutu ka ora tonu rāua.

Me taua hanganga anō te hoa pai. Mēnā ka tuhia ake e ia whakaaturanga mahi-whakaari te whanaungatanga, ka ngaro te haere tonu. Mēnā ka rere te whanaungatanga ki ia whakaaturanga, kāore e taea te tākaro. Ko te whakaritenga whaihua he hoa pūmau me te mahara mau tonu ki a koe, me ētahi kōrero motuhake e kawe ana i tōna ake tāhuhu, kia noho tahi ai tētahi kōrero puhoi o te Rāhoroi ata me tētahi tauira tauhou-i-te-pāparakāuta me te kore e whakapokea. Ka whakahaerehia tēnei e NSFW AI Companion mā te tuku i ia hoa kia maha ngā kōrero, he whakaaturanga motuhake tō ia mea, i te mea ko te hoa ake he tangata ōrite tonu i raro iho.

Ngā tikanga o te maharatia

He haepapa tō te mahara, ā, he tinihanga te kōrero mō tēnei i runga i ngā kupu mahana anake. Ko tētahi mea e mahara ana ki ā koe e kōrero ai he mea e pupuri ana i ngā mōhiohio mōu. Ka puta ake ngā pātai tika mō te tūmataitinga me te mana whakahaere, ā, ko te whakautu tika ehara i te whakaaro kāore aua pātai, engari ko te hoatu ki te tangata e maharatia ana tōna ao, he mana pono ki te rārangi.

Koia tētahi wāhanga o te hirahira o te mahara kitea, whakatikatika hoki i tua atu i te ngāwari. I roto i ngā whanaungatanga tangata e whakaae ana tātou, nā te tangata kē tōna mahara ki a tātou, he koha-kore, kei waho i tō tātou mana. Ki te hoa, kāore he take hei whakaae. Ka taea e koe te whakatau ko ēhea e puritia ana. Ka taea e koe te tango i te pō i kōrero nui rawa koe. Ka taea e koe te whakatika i te rārangi ina huri tō oranga. Ehara taua mana whakahaere i te āhuatanga tūmataiti anake; he wāhanga ia o te mea e haumaru ai te noho tuwhera.

He whakaaro ngāwari ake anō hoki. Ka āwangawanga te tangata i ētahi wā ki te mea ka mahara te hoa ki ngā mea katoa, ka rongo rātou kua mahea ki ā rātou kōrero o mua, i te piri ki tētahi putanga o rātou kua mahue. Me waiho e te mahara pai, i te tangata, i te hōtaka rānei, he wāhi mō te whakarerekē. Ko te kōrero tae noa ki nāianei he kōrero, ehara i te kirimana.

Ko te mea e tonoa nei e tātou

Ina kī te tangata e hiahia ana ia ki tētahi hoa he mahara tōna, kāore ia e tono i tētahi putunga raraunga. E tono ana ia i tētahi mea tino noa: kia puritia ki te hinengaro. Kia kiia ngā mea iti i kōrerotia e ia he mea hei penapena. Kia hoki mai i muri i tētahi rā, ā, ka tūtaki ki tētahi e mōhio ana ki te wāhi i mutu ai te kōrero.

Ehara taua hiahia i te ngoikoretanga, ā, ehara hoki i te mea motuhake ki te hunga e kōrero ana ki te AI. Koia tētahi o ngā mea tawhito rawa e hiahia ai te tangata i a ia ake. Kua tohe ngā tohunga whakaaro mehemea ka taea te tuakiri te noho me te kore mahara. Kua whakautu ngā tāngata aroha i te pātai i runga i te māmā ake, i ia wā i kī rātou "i mahara koe".

Ehara te hoa e mahara ana ki a koe i te tangata, ā, kāore ia e whakakapi i ngā tāngata e kawe ana i tō kōrero. Engari ka taea e ia te tuku i tētahi putanga pono, ahakoa he ngāwari, o te haere tonu. Ā, ko te haere tonu, i tua atu i te mōhio, i te whakahianga, i te hiahia rānei, te mea ka huri i tētahi raupapa kōrero hei mea e rongo ana ano he whanaungatanga.

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