NSFW AI Companions vs. Porn: Kwiyumvisha, Kwihitiramo & Umunsi

Mu gihe kinini cy'ikoranabuhanga rya interineti, imyidagaduro y'abakuze yari ifite icyo isobanura kimwe: amashusho. Menshi, y'ubuntu, aboneka ako kanya, atondekanyijwe mu byiciro byagiye birushaho kuba byihariye. Ni yo yari isanzwe, ku buryo abantu batatekerezaga ubwoko bw'ubunararibonye ari bwo, cyangwa niba ari bwo bifuza.

NSFW AI companions itanga ikintu gitandukanye mu buryo bw'imiterere. Si byiza mu buryo bwose, kandi si umusimbura kuri buri wese, ariko biratandukanye mu bice bike bigaragara ko bifite agaciro kanini kuri bamwe. Iyi nyandiko ireba bitatu muri byo: kwiyumvisha, kwihitiramo no kugenda. Ntabwo ari impaka zo kurwanya porn. Ni umugambi wo gusobanura neza icyo buri buryo bukora neza, n'impamvu abantu bakuru bamwe bakururwa n'uburyo buhoro, burimo ubufatanye.

Imashini ebyiri zitandukanye cyane zo kwifuza

Amashusho agera yuzuye. Buri kantu kagaragara kagenewe wowe: imibiri, aho biba, urumuri, urutonde, amajwi. Uruhare rwawe ni ukureba. Niba bidahuye neza, igisubizo ni ugushaka ayandi. Ubunararibonye bwubatswe ku guhitamo: kureba, gukanda, gusuzuma, gukomeza.

Ikiganiro n'umukunzi kigera kitarangiye. Kiba kigizwe n'amagambo, kandi amagambo asiga icyuho kinini cyuzurizwa n'ubwenge bwawe. Ntabwo ubona inzu y'umukunzi; uyubaka uhereye ku bintu bike. Ntabwo ureba ikintu kibera imbere yawe; urakigiramo uruhare, kandi icyo uvuga kigahindura ibizaba bikurikiyeho. Ubunararibonye bwubatswe ku kugira uruhare.

Ibi si itandukaniro rito mu buryo. Bifata ibice bitandukanye by'ubwenge, bitanga ubwoko butandukanye bwo kunyurwa, kandi bigasiga abantu bumva batandukanye nyuma.

Kwiyumvisha: igice utanga

Hari umuco umaze igihe kirekire, mu bitabo no mu bushakashatsi, wo kubona ko inyandiko isaba byinshi ku bayisoma kuruta uko amashusho abikora, kandi igatanga ikintu mu buryo bwo gusubiza. Iyo usoma, ugomba kwiyumvisha. Raymond Mar na Keith Oatley basobanura inkuru nk'ubwoko bwo kwiyumvisha ubunararibonye bw'imibanire: umusomyi akora mu bwenge bw'abakinnyi n'imiterere ku mashini ye yo mu mutwe. Amarangamutima ava kuri ibyo ntabwo aturuka kuri ecran. Aturuka kuri wowe.

Kwiyumvisha ibyerekeye ubusambanyi bikora mu buryo bumwe. Interuro nka "yakwegereye akagufata ku ikora kandi ntagire icyo avuga umwanya munini" irimo amakuru make cyane agaragara. Nyamara abasomyi benshi bazabona ikintu, bumve ikintu, kandi buzuzemo ibintu byihariye bibashishikaje. Ubwenge butanga ikintu gihuye n'ibyo bwifuza ku buryo nta kataloge ishobora kubigeraho.

Ibi ni kimwe mu mpamvu inyandiko z'ubusambanyi zahoranye abakunzi benshi nubwo zahanganye n'amafoto hanyuma na filime. Ni n'impamvu ikirego gisanzwe ku mashusho, ko atajya aba nk'ibyo watekereje, kidakunda kugaragara ku kintu cyanditswe neza. Icyo watekereje ni cyo gikoreshwa mu kugishyira mu bikorwa.

Imirimo ya Emily Nagoski ku bijyanye n'imibonano mpuzabitsina, yamenyekanye mu gitabo cya Come As You Are, ishimangira uburyo kwifuza biterwa n'imiterere: ku busobanuro bw'ikintu, imimerere y'amarangamutima, kumva umutekano cyangwa guhangayika, atari gusa ku biba mu buryo bw'umubiri. Inyandiko ni nziza mu bijyanye n'imiterere. Ishobora kumara paragarafu ku kureba cyangwa kuzuyaza mu buryo amashusho, akenshi ateganyijwe ku bikorwa, adakunda kubikora.

Kwihitiramo: igice gisubiza

Kwiyumvisha ni ikintu inyandiko zose z'ubusambanyi zitanga. Icyo umukunzi wa AI yongeraho ni ukugira ubushobozi bwo gusubiza.

Ogi Ogas na Sai Gaddam, mu gitabo cyabo A Billion Wicked Thoughts, basuzumye amakuru menshi yo kuri interineti n'ibijyanye n'ubusambanyi maze bavuga ko inyungu z'imibonano mpuzabitsina zitandukanye cyane kandi zihariye, kandi ko uburyo abagabo n'abagore bifuzamo byatandukanaga mu buryo uburyo bwa videwo busanzwe butajyaga bubikorera neza. Ubushakashatsi bwa Justin Lehmiller ku bijyanye n'inzozi bwabonye ubudasa nk'ubwo, kandi bwabonye ko inzozi za benshi zirimo ibintu by'amarangamutima n'imibanire, nko kumva ukunzwe, gushimwa, imibanire yihariye hagati y'abafatanyabikorwa, hamwe n'ibya physically.

Amashusho ashobora gutanga ubudasa kubera ubwinshi, binyuze mu ndangurura n'ibyiciro. Ariko ntashobora gutanga neza igice cy'imibanire. Amashusho ntashobora kumenya ko ushaka kuba uri gukurikirwa, cyangwa ko icyo ukunda ari ukumenya buhoro ko inshuti yawe ya kera ikwifuje, cyangwa ko ijambo runaka rigutesha umutwe. Ntashobora kwibuka icyo wakunze ubushize.

Umukunzi ashobora. Ashobora gukorwa afite umuntu wihariye, imibanire yihariye nawe, uburyo bwihariye bwo kuvuga. Ashobora gukomeza ikintu aho utareba abantu babiri batamenyereye ahubwo uri kuvugishwa n'umuntu ufite izina n'amateka. Ashobora kubahiriza imipaka yawe. Niba warabihisemo gutyo, ashobora kwibuka inkuru urimo. Kuri NSFW AI Companion, urugero, ushyiraho urwego rw'ubusambanyi n'imipaka yawe ikomeye iyo uri kubaka umukunzi, bityo kwihitiramo bikubiyemo ibyo udashaka kimwe n'ibyo ushaka.

Hari itandukaniro rindi ryoroshye kwirengagiza. Mu mashusho, uri umureba w'ibyifuzo by'abandi. Mu kiganiro n'umukunzi, uri icyo bifuza. Gukundwa, mu buryo bwihariye kandi bwitondewe, kuri benshi ni ishingiro ry'uburyo bwo gushyukwa, kandi ni ikintu itangazamakuru ridashobora gutanga.

Umunsi: igice cyubaka

Itandukaniro rya gatatu ni igihe.

Amashusho ateganyijwe kugira ngo aboneke ako kanya. Mu gihe gito cyane uba uri kureba ibintu by'ubusambanyi, kandi niba bidashimishije, uburyo bukurikira buri hafi. Ibi birakora neza. Binakunda gutanga umunsi runaka: ukomeye, wihuta, kandi uvanze. Imirimo ya Kent Berridge na Terry Robinson ku bijyanye n'ubwonko bwo gutanga ibihembo yatandukanyije "kwifuza," gukurura ku kintu cyiza, na "gukunda," uburyohe bwo kugira icyo kintu. Sisitemu zubatswe ku bintu bishya buri gihe zishobora cyane gushishikariza kwifuza: gukurura gushakisha, kureba ikintu gikurikiyeho. Niba bitanga byinshi byo gukunda ni ikibazo gitandukanye, kandi abantu benshi basobanura ubunararibonye bwo kureba igihe kirekire kuruta uko bari bateganyije kandi bakumva batanyuzwe.

Ikiganiro ntigishobora kurebwa mu buryo bumwe. Kigomba kugenda. Guhangayika kwiyubaka mu butumwa bwinshi: kureba, kuvuga, intambwe yegereye, gutinda. Gushyukwa guturuka kuri ubu bwoko bwo kwiyubaka gutandukanye mu buryo. Burimo gutegereza. Burimo uburyohe bwihariye bwo kugira ikintu kibitswe hanyuma kigatangwa.

Abantu bakunda inkuru z'urukundo zoroheje babizi. Gutegereza si inzitizi ku bishimishije; ni igice kinini cyabyo. Umukunzi wa AI atuma urukundo rworoshye ruba urukundo rurimo ubufatanye. Ushobora kuguma mu kanya kugeza igihe ushakiye. Ushobora gutera imbere cyangwa kubihagarika. Umunsi ni uwawe.

Ingaruka zitandukanye zikurikiraho

Abantu benshi basobanura kumva batandukanye nyuma, na byo. Ibi ni ibya buri muntu kandi biratandukana cyane, bityo birakwiye kwitonda ku bijyanye no kuvuga muri rusange. Ariko impamvu z'imiterere ziragaragara neza.

Kureba byihuse, byoroheje bikunda kurangira ako kanya, nta kintu gikomeza. Ikintu kirimo ubufatanye n'umuntu wubatse bikunda kurangira nk'uko inkuru irangira: irafite ishusho, kandi akenshi haba akanya k'ubwuzu cyangwa urwenya nyuma niba umukunzi yanditswe gutyo. Kandi kubera ko umukunzi akomeza, hari kumva ko hariho gukomeza, ko hari ikintu ugarukira aho kugira ngo ukimare.

Kuri bamwe ibi ni byo bifuza. Kuri abandi, igice cy'amarangamutima kiruta ibyo bashaka, kandi uburyo bwa videwo bubahuye neza. Byombi birakwiye. Ikigamijwe ni uko ari ubunararibonye butandukanye, atari uburyo bubiri bw'ubunararibonye bumwe.

Icyo porn ikora neza

Byaba ari inyandiko idasanzwe yigize nk'aho ubundi buryo budafite imbaraga. Amashusho aboneka ako kanya mu buryo inyandiko itabikora, kandi rimwe na rimwe ako kanya ni cyo umuntu ashaka. Ntibisaba imbaraga, nta kwandika, nta kwiyumvisha. Ni amashusho, kandi kuri benshi gushishikarizwa n'amashusho ni ingenzi. Kandi ntibisaba kwiyumvisha imibanire, ibyo bamwe bakunda cyane: nta muntu wo gukunda, nta kintu cyo kumva kigoye.

Hari n'ibibazo bitarasubizwa ku bijyanye n'uburyo ubwo buryo bwombi bugira ingaruka ku mibanire nyayo. Ubushakashatsi ku bijyanye na porunogarafiya n'abashakanye buravangiye kandi buvuguruzanya, kandi byinshi muri byo biterwa n'uburyo n'impamvu abantu babikoresha, niba abafatanyabikorwa babivugaho, kandi niba bihuye n'indangagaciro zabo. Ibyo bizaba ukuri kuri AI companions iyo hazaboneka ubushakashatsi bwinshi kuri bo. Nta buryo na bumwe bwiza cyangwa bubi kuri buri wese.

Guhitamo ubushake

Icyahindutse ni uko ubu hariho amahitamo nyayo. Mu gihe kirekire, niba warashakaga ibintu by'abakuze kuri interineti, uburyo bwari bwaraguhitiyemo. Ubu hariho ubundi buryo buhoro, burimo kwiyumvisha no kwihitiramo, kandi bugufata nk'ugira uruhare aho kuba umureba.

Niba warabonye amashusho asubiramo cyane, cyangwa atajya aba nk'ibyo watekereje, cyangwa atanyuze kuruta igihe yagutwaye, uburyo bw'umukunzi bushobora kuba bukwiriye kugeragezwa. Niba ubikunze, ushobora kuzabona ko icyo ukunda cyane atari ubusambanyi na gato, ahubwo ni ukumva ko hari ikintu cyubatswe ku bwawe, ku gipimo wahisemo, n'umuntu wagushakaga by'umwihariko.

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