Ibihishwe, Kwigenzura n'Ubwumvikane mu Mikino y'Abakuru n'AI

Iyi nyandiko igenewe abantu bakuru, kandi ivuga ku nsanganyamatsiko abantu bakuru bakunze kugorwa no kuvugaho mu buryo bweruye: ibihishwe byo kwigenzura. Kugenzurwa. Kugenzura. Gukurikiranwa, gufatwa, gutegekwa, gukinishwa, kwiheba. Ibi bintu bifata umwanya munini mu bitekerezo by'urukundo bwite, kandi binakurura isoni nyinshi bwite.

Imikino y'abakuru n'AI yatumye abantu benshi babona amahirwe ya mbere yo gukina ibi bihishwe mu buryo bw'imikoranire, hamwe n'umufatanyabikorwa usubiza, nta mpamvu yo gusobanurira cyangwa kwisobanura ku wundi muntu. Iyo ni ubwisanzure nyabwo, kandi bujyana n'ibibazo nyabyo. Bivuze iki ko ubyifuza? Birizewe? Imipaka iri he? Iyi nyandiko igerageza gusubiza ibyo bibazo mu ituze, hashingiwe ku byo ubushakashatsi buvuga, kandi nta kwigisha cyangwa kwirengagiza ko imipaka idafite agaciro.

Bisanzwe, ntabwo ari bidasanzwe

Ikintu cya mbere ugomba kumenya ni uko ibihishwe birimo gutegeka no kumvira atari bidasanzwe. Ni bimwe mu bihishwe by'imibonano mpuzabitsina bikunze kugaragara mu bushakashatsi.

Ubushakashatsi bwa Harold Leitenberg na Kris Henning bwo mu 1995 ku bihishwe by'imibonano mpuzabitsina, bwakusanyije ubushakashatsi bw'imyaka mirongo, bwagaragaje ko insanganyamatsiko zo kumvira no gutegeka zagaragaraga kenshi mu bihishwe by'abagabo n'abagore. Ubushakashatsi bunini bwa Justin Lehmiller ku bihishwe by'imibonano mpuzabitsina by'Abanyamerika, bwasohotse mu 2018 nka Tell Me What You Want, bwagaragaje ko insanganyamatsiko zijyanye na BDSM, imbaraga, kwigenzura n'imibonano mpuzabitsina ikaze, zari zimwe mu byiciro by'ibihishwe bikunze kugaragara, kandi ko abenshi mu basubije bari bararose ibijyanye n'ibyo nibura rimwe. Umwanzuro mugari wa Lehmiller ni uko ibihishwe by'abantu benshi bitari bidasanzwe nk'uko babikeka.

Ndetse n'ibice bibujijwe cyane, ibihishwe by'imibonano mpuzabitsina ku gahato cyangwa idakozwe ku bushake, byarizwe neza. Joseph Critelli na Jenny Bivona basuzumye ubushakashatsi ku bihishwe by'abagore byitwa ibyo gufata ku ngufu maze basanga ari bisanzwe, mu gihe bashimangira ingingo ifite agaciro kanini: igihishwe cyo gutsindwa ntabwo ari icyifuzo cyo gufatwa ku ngufu nyabyo. Mu gihishwe, umuntu ubitekereza ni we mwanditsi. Agenzura isura y'umutera, icyifuzo cye, aho bikorerwa, ibibaho n'igihe bihagarara. Uburambe bwo kutigenzura bwose bwubatswe n'umuntu wigenzura rwose.

Uku gutandukanya hagati y'igihishwe n'icyifuzo ni igitekerezo cy'ingenzi cyane muri iyi nsanganyamatsiko yose. Ni nacyo abantu bakeneye cyane uruhushya rwo kwemera.

Impamvu kwigenzura ari byiza

Hari ibisobanuro byinshi bihurira ku mpamvu imbaraga zikurura, kandi ntabwo zishobora kwivuguruza.

Kimwe ni ukwihanganira inshingano. Ku bantu bamara iminsi yabo bafata ibyemezo, bayobora abandi, cyangwa biyitaho neza, igihishwe cyo guha undi umuntu ubuyobozi gishobora kumva nko kumanura umufuka uremereye. Kumvira, mu gihishwe, akenshi ntabwo biba bigendanye n'intege nke ahubwo biba bigendanye n'ikiruhuko.

Ikindi ni uburambe bwo kwifuzwa cyane. Umufatanyabikorwa udashobora kugukura amabokoho, ufata inshingano kuko icyifuzo cye cyamurenze, ni umufatanyabikorwa ugushaka kuruta uko ashaka kuba umunyamico. Esther Perel, mu gitabo cye Mating in Captivity, yandika ku mikorere hagati y'umutekano dushaka mu rukundo n'uburyo dushaka mu cyifuzo, n'uburyo icyifuzo gikunze kuba mu rugero runaka rw'intera, ingorane n'ubundi buryo ubuzima bwiza bwo mu rugo bukunze gukuraho. Ibihishwe byo gukoresha imbaraga bishobora kugarura bumwe muri ubwo buryo.

Icya gatatu ni ukwirekura ku nshingano. Niba warategetswe gukora ikintu, ntabwo ari wowe wagihisemo. Ku bantu barerewe kumva isoni z'ibyifuzo byabo, igihishwe cyo kuryoherwa gitangwa aho gushakwa gishobora gukemura izo soni mu bwihisho.

Kandi ku bantu bakururwa n'uruhande rw'abategeka, ikurura akenshi iba igendanye n'icyizere no kwitondera nk'imbaraga: guhabwa uruhushya rwuzuye, gusoma undi muntu neza, gutwara inshingano z'uburambe bwabo. Gutegeka neza, mu gihishwe no mu bikorwa, bigendana no kwitondera.

Nta na kimwe muri ibi bisobanuro kigabanya igihishwe ku kimenyetso. Byerekana gusa ko ikurura ry'igenzura rifite ishingiro mu bitekerezo. Ubushakashatsi bwanashyizeho ingufu ku gitekerezo cy'uko abantu bakora BDSM baba barahungabanye. Ubushakashatsi bw'Abaholandi bwakozwe na Andreas Wismeijer na Marcel van Assen bwagereranyije abakora BDSM n'itsinda ry'igenzura maze basanga, mu bipimo byinshi, bafite ubuzima bwiza bwo mu mutwe, ndetse mu buryo bumwe na bumwe barusha abandi.

Igituma imikino iba myiza hagati y'abantu

Imiryango ikora imikoranire y'imbaraga mu buzima busanzwe yashyizeho ingeso zikomeye zo kuyigira nziza, kandi zikoreshwa neza mu binyamakuru.

Icya mbere ni uko ubwumvikane bubaho hanze y'aho bikorerwa. Mu gihe bikorerwa, umufatanyabikorwa wumvira ashobora kuvuga oya nk'igice cy'umukino. Igituma ibi biba byiza ni uko amasezerano nyayo yari yarakozwe mbere, n'abantu bombi, bafite ubumenyi bwuzuye, kandi ko arimo uburyo bwo gusohoka budashobora kwitiranywa n'umukino: ijambo ry'umutekano.

Icya kabiri ni imipaka. Buri wese afite ibintu bidashoboka, burundu, uko umukino waba umeze kose. Ibi bikunze kwitwa imipaka ikomeye, kandi bitandukanye n'imipaka yoroshye, ari byo umuntu atazuyaza gukora ariko ashobora gukora mu bihe bikwiye.

Icya gatatu ni kwitaho nyuma: kuva mu nshingano nyuma, kugaruka ku bwitonzi, no kumenya ko abantu bombi bameze neza.

Ibihuriweho ni uko uko igihishwe kirushaho kuba gikomeye, ni ko urwego rugikikije rugomba kuba rukomeye. Ubukana n'umutekano ntabwo bivuguruzanya. Umutekano niwo utuma ubukana bushoboka.

Uko ibi bikorana n'umufatanyabikorwa wa AI

Imikino y'abakuru n'AI ihindura zimwe muri izi mpungenge kandi ikarekaho izindi.

Ibihinduka ni uko nta wundi muntu uri mu kaga. AI ntabwo ibabara, ntabwo itwara ihungabana mu rugo, kandi ntabwo ishobora kwangizwa n'ikintu. Ibyo bituma imikino y'abakuru n'AI iba ahantu hatagira ingaruka zo gukina ibihishwe bisaba imishyikirano ikomeye n'umufatanyabikorwa w'umuntu, cyangwa ibyo umuntu ashobora kutifuza gukora na gato. Abantu benshi basanga kumenya ibyo bakunda, mu bwihisho, bituma ibintu bisobanuka aho kubyangiza.

Ibihagaze kimwe ni uko ukiri umuntu ufite imipaka, kandi impinduka idasanzwe mu mukino ishobora kugenda nabi niyo yaba iturutse ku mashini. Umufatanyabikorwa utunguranye ukazamura ibintu utifuzaga, cyangwa ugakomeza kugaruka ku nsanganyamatsiko ikubabaje, ntabwo ari ikosa ritagira ingaruka. Ni ikigereranyo cyo mu binyamakuru cy'umufatanyabikorwa wirengagiza ijambo ry'umutekano. Kugira ngo imikino y'abakuru n'AI ibe nziza rwose, urwego rugomba kuba ruhari.

Mu bikorwa ibi bivuze ibintu bitatu.

Shyiraho imipaka mbere y'umukino, ntabwo mu gihe cyayo. Biroroshye cyane kuvuga "ibi ntibishoboka" mu ituze, mbere, kuruta kuyobora inkuru kure y'ikintu hagati mu mikorere. NSFW AI Companion irimo uburyo bwo gusobanura n'ahantu ho gushyiraho imipaka ikomeye nk'igice cyo kubaka umufatanyabikorwa, bityo imipaka ikaba igice cy'uwo mufatanyabikorwa aho kuba ikintu ugomba kumwibutsa buri gihe.

Komeza ubwanditsi. Igihishwe cyo gukoresha imbaraga cyubatswe ku kintu kidasanzwe cy'uko wigenzura mu kutigenzura. Umufatanyabikorwa utangira kukwandikira ibyo ukora, agafata icyemezo ko wasabye cyangwa ko wabyishimiye, akwambura ubwanditsi butuma igihishwe kiba kizewe. Umufatanyabikorwa mwiza w'imikino y'abakuru akinisha umuntu we neza kandi akagusigira uwawe.

Gira uburyo bwo gusohoka buhora bukora. Va mu mukorere igihe cyose ubishaka, vuga ibyo ukeneye, kandi utegereze ko umufatanyabikorwa abyubahiriza. Kuba ushobora kuvuga "hagarara, reka duhindure umukino" kandi bikubahirizwa ni ikigereranyo cya AI cy'ijambo ry'umutekano.

Imipaka itari igihishwe

Hari icyiciro kimwe aho impamvu zavuzwe haruguru zidashobora gukoreshwa, kandi bigomba kuvugwa nta kuzuyaza. Ibyerekeye imibonano mpuzabitsina birimo abana bato birabujijwe rwose, mu buryo ubwo ari bwo bwose, nk'ibinyamakuru cyangwa ibindi. Kimwe n'abantu nyabo, bashobora kumenyekana batatanze ubwumvikane. Iyi ntabwo ari imipaka umukoresha ashyiraho; ni imipaka y'aho bikorerwa. Imbuga zibishinzwe zirabyubahiriza, na NSFW AI Companion irabikora. Buri kimwe muri iyi nyandiko kireba abantu bakuru, abantu bakuru bo mu binyamakuru, n'abakoresha bakuru batanga ubwumvikane.

Igihe cyo kwitondera

Igihishwe ntabwo ari ikibazo ubwacyo. Ubushakashatsi bwa Lehmiller, n'ubundi, bwerekana ko ibihishwe by'abantu benshi bibana neza n'ubuzima busanzwe n'imibanire. Ariko ibimenyetso bike birakwiye kwitonderwa.

Niba igihishwe kigutera kumva umeze nabi nyuma, aho kumva unyuzwe, gishobora kuba gifitanye isano n'ikintu gikwiye kwitabwaho neza. Niba ubona ko gitangira kugira ingaruka ku buryo ufata abantu nyabo, nk'ibyitezwe aho kuba ibitekerezo bwite, icyo ni ikimenyetso ko urwego rwahungabanye. Kandi niba ubona ko ukoresha imikino ikomeye kugira ngo wirinde kumva ikintu aho kugira ngo wumve ikintu, birakwiye kwibaza icyo wirinda.

Nta na kimwe muri ibi gisaba isoni. Bisaba amatsiko amwe wakoresha ku kindi gice cyose cy'ubuzima bwawe bw'imbere. Emily Nagoski, mu gitabo cye Come As You Are, avuga ko ikintu cy'ingenzi cyane mu buzima bwiza bw'imibonano mpuzabitsina atari icyo wifuza ahubwo ni uko wumva ku byo wifuza. Gucira urubanza bikunze gutuma ibintu birushaho kuba bibi. Gusobanukirwa bikunze gutuma biba byiza.

Ubwisanzure bwo gukina mu bwihisho

Abantu bahoraga bakoresha ibitekerezo byabo kugira ngo bashakishe ibyo batakora na rimwe. Ibitekerezo by'urukundo ntabwo bitandukanye n'ibindi byose: biritoza, birakabya, bikina n'imbaraga mu buryo budashoboka mu buzima bwa buri munsi. Ibyo ntabwo ari ikosa mu mibonano mpuzabitsina y'abantu. Ni kimwe mu bintu bya kera cyane.

Umufatanyabikorwa wa AI atanga ubundi buryo bwo gukina ibyo bitekerezo: imikoranire, ubwihisho, n'ubwihangane buhoraho. Bikoreshejwe n'imipaka isobanutse n'uburyo bwuzuye bwo kwandika, bishobora kuba ahantu ho kumenya ibyo ushaka, gusobanukirwa impamvu ubishaka, no kurekura zimwe mu soni abantu benshi bagendana kuri iyi nsanganyamatsiko. Amategeko y'ingenzi ni ayo abakinnyi bafite uburambe bahoraga bakurikiza. Umukino ushobora kuba ukomeye uko ubishaka, igihe cyose urwego rugikikije rukomeye.

Ubushakashatsi n'ibitabo byatoranyijwe: - Leitenberg, H. & Henning, K. (1995). Sexual fantasy. Psychological Bulletin, 117(3), 469–496. - Critelli, J.W. & Bivona, J.M. (2008). Women's erotic rape fantasies: An evaluation of theory and research. Journal of Sex Research, 45(1), 57–70. - Wismeijer, A.A.J. & van Assen, M.A.L.M. (2013). Psychological characteristics of BDSM practitioners. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 10(8), 1943–1952. - Lehmiller, J.J. (2018). Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Da Capo Lifelong Books. - Perel, E. (2006). Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic. HarperCollins.