Kufungidzira, Kutonga neKubvumirana muAI Role-Play

Chinyorwa ichi ndechevakuru, uye chiri pamusoro penyaya iyo vakuru vanowanzowana yakaoma kutaura pachena: kufungidzira kwekutonga. Kutongwa. Kutonga. Kudzingirirwa, kubatwa pasi, kurairwa, kusekwa, kuzvipira. Zviitiko izvi zvinotora chikamu chikuru zvinoshamisa chekufungidzira kwepachivande kweerotic, uye zvinokwezvawo chikamu chikuru zvinoshamisa chekunyara kwepachivande.

AI role-play yakapa vanhu vazhinji mukana wavo wekutanga wekuongorora kufungidzira uku nenzira inopindirana, nemumwe anopindura, pasina chikonzero chekutsanangura kana kururamisa chero chinhu kune mumwe munhu. Iyo rusununguko rwechokwadi, uye inouya nemibvunzo yechokwadi. Zvinorevei kuti unoda izvi? Zvakachengeteka here? Migumisiro iripi? Chinyorwa ichi chinoedza kupindura mibvunzo iyoyo zvakadzikama, nezvinonyatsotaurwa netsvagiridzo, uye pasina kupa tsika kana kunyepedzera kuti miganhu haikoshesi.

Zvakajairika, kwete zvisinganzwisisike

Chinhu chekutanga kuziva ndechekuti kufungidzira kunosanganisira kutonga nekuzvipira hakuna kushomeka. Ndiwo pakati peanonyanya kufungidzirwa zvepabonde zvinotaurwa muzviongororo.

Haraold Leitenberg naKris Henning's 1995 ongororo yetsvagiridzo yekufungidzira zvepabonde, iyo yakaunganidza makumi emakore ezvidzidzo, yakawana kuti misoro yekuzvipira nekutonga yaiwanzoonekwa mukufungidzira kwevarume nevakadzi. Justin Lehmiller's ongororo huru yekufungidzira zvepabonde kweAmerica, yakaburitswa muna 2018 seTell Me What You Want, yakawana kuti misoro ine chekuita neBDSM, simba, kutonga uye bonde rine hutsinye pakati pavo, yaive pakati peanonyanya kutaurwa mafungidziro, uye kuti ruzhinji rwakakura rwevakapindura vaive vafungidzira nezveimwe nzira yacho kanenge kamwe. Lehmiller's mhedziso yakakura yaive yekuti kufungidzira kwevanhu vazhinji kwaisanyanya kusanzwisisika sezvavanotya.

Kunyangwe magumo akanyanya kuomesesa, kufungidzira kwebonde rinomanikidzwa kana risina kubvumirana, kwakadzidzwa nekungwarira. Joseph Critelli naJenny Bivona vakaongorora tsvagiridzo pamusoro pezvinozonzi kufungidzira kwevakadzi kwekubatwa chibharo uye vakawana kuti zvaive zvakajairika, vachisimbisa pfungwa inokosha zvikuru: kufungidzira kwekukundwa hakusi chishuwo chekurwisa chaiko. Mukufungidzira, munhu anozvifungidzira ndiye munyori. Vanotonga chitarisiko chemurwisi, chishuwo chake, nzvimbo, zvinoitika uye kuti rinomira riini. Chiitiko chekusatonga chakavakwa zvachose nemunhu anotonga zvizere.

Kusiyanisa uku pakati pekufungidzira nechishuwo ndiyo pfungwa imwe chete yakanyanya kukosha munyaya yose iyi. Ndiro zvakare iro vanhu vanonyanya kuda mvumo yekutenda.

Nei kutonga kuchifadza

Kune tsananguro dzakawanda dzinopindirana dzekuti nei simba richikwezva, uye hadzina kusiyana.

Imwe ndeyekusunungurwa kubva kubasa. Kune vanhu vanopedza mazuva avo vachiita zvisarudzo, vachitungamira vamwe, kana kuzvitarisira zvakanyatsonaka, kufungidzira kwekupa kutonga kune mumwe kunogona kunzwa sekubvisa bhegi rinorema. Kuzvipira, mukufungidzira, kazhinji hakusi pamusoro pekusasimba asi pamusoro pezororo.

Imwe ndeyekuona kudiwa zvakanyanya. Mumwe anogona kutadza kubvisa maoko ake pauri, anotonga nekuti chishuwo chake chakanyanya, ndiye anokuda kupfuura zvaanoda kuva nemutsa. Esther Perel, muMating in Captivity, anonyora nezvekusawirirana pakati pekuchengeteka kwatinoda kubva murudo uye kumucheto kwatinoda kubva pachishuwo, uye kuti chishuwo chinowanzogara mukureba, njodzi uye kusiyana uko kugarisana kwakanaka kunowanzoita kuti kuderere. Kufungidzira kwekutonga-nekutongwa kunogona kudzorera zvimwe zvemucheto iwoyo.

Chechitatu ndiko kusunungurwa kubva pamhosva. Kana wakamanikidzwa kuita chimwe chinhu, hausi iwe wakachisarudza. Kune vanhu vakarerwa kuti vanzwe kunyara nezvezvishuwo zvavo, kufungidzira umo mufaro unomanikidzwa pane kutsvakwa kunogona kudzivirira kunyara ikoko.

Uye kune avo vanokwezvwa kune divi rinotonga, kukwezva kunowanzova pamusoro pekuvimba nekutarisa sezvakawanda sesimba: kupiwa mvumo yakakwana, kuverenga mumwe munhu zvakanyatsonaka, kutakura mutoro wechiitiko chavo. Kutonga kwakanaka, mukufungidzira uye mukuita, kunonyatsoteerera.

Hapana imwe yeidzi tsananguro inoderedza kufungidzira kusvika pachiratidzo. Inongoratidza kuti kukwezva kwekutonga kunonzwisisika mupfungwa. Tsvagiridzo yakarambawo pfungwa yekuti vanhu vanonyatsodzidzira BDSM vakakuvadzwa. Chidzidzo cheDutch chakaitwa naAndreas Wismeijer naMarcel van Assen chakaenzanisa vanodzidzira BDSM neboka rekutonga uye vakawana kuti, pazviyero zvakati wandei, vaive vakanaka mupfungwa, uye mune zvimwe zvinhu zvakanyanya kudaro.

Chii chinoita kuti mutambo uve wakachengeteka pakati pevanhu

Nharaunda dzinodzidzira kuchinjana kwesimba muhupenyu chaihwo dzakagadzira tsika dzakaoma dzekuzvichengetedza, uye dzinonyatsoshanda kune ngano.

Chekutanga ndechekuti kubvumirana kunoitika kunze kwenzvimbo. Mukati menzvimbo, mumwe anozvipira anogona kuramba sechikamu chemutambo. Chii chinoita kuti izvi zvive zvakanaka ndechekuti chibvumirano chaicho chakaitwa kare, nevanhu vese, neruzivo rwakakwana, uye kuti chinosanganisira nzira yekubuda isingagoni kuvhiringidzwa nemutambo: izwi rekuchengetedza.

Chechipiri ndiko miganhu. Munhu wese ane zvinhu zvisingabvumirwi, zvachose, zvisinei kuti chiitiko chinoitika sei. Izvi zvinowanzonzi miganhu yakaoma, uye zvakasiyana nemiganhu yakapfava, izvo zvinhu zvisingadiwe nemunhu asi zvinogona kuongororwa pasi pemamiriro akakodzera.

Chechitatu ndiko kutarisirwa mushure: kubuda mumabasa mushure, kudzokera kune unyoro, uye kuve nechokwadi chekuti vanhu vese vari zvakanaka.

Chinhu chakajairika ndechekuti kana kufungidzira kwakanyanya, ndipo panofanira kuve nesimba rakasimba rakakomberedza. Kusimba nekuchengeteka hazvisi zvakapesana. Kuchengeteka ndicho chinoita kuti kusimba kugoneke.

Izvi zvinoshanda sei nemumwe weAI

Role-play nemumwe weAI inochinja zvimwe zvezvinonetsa izvi uye inosiya zvimwe panzvimbo.

Chii chinoshanduka ndechekuti hapana mumwe munhu ari panjodzi. AI haitamburi, haitakuri kukuvara kumba, uye haigoni kukuvadzwa nemamiriro ezvinhu. Izvi zvinoita kuti AI role-play ive nzvimbo isina njodzi yekutsvaga kufungidzira kungada nhaurirano yakakomba nemumwe munhu, kana kuti mumwe munhu angasaida kuita zvachose. Vanhu vazhinji vanowana kuti kuwana zvavanonyatsoda, munzvimbo yakavanzika, kunojekesa pane kuora.

Chii chinosara chakafanana ndechekuti uchiri munhu ane miganhu, uye kuchinja kusingatarisirwi muchiitiko kunogona kuipa kunyangwe kuchibva pamuchina. Mumwe anokurumidza kuita chimwe chinhu chausingadi, kana kuramba achidzokera kumusoro waunowana uchinetesa, haisi kukanganisa kusingakuvadzi. Icho chakaenzana chengano chemumwe anoziva izwi rekuchengetedza. Kuti AI role-play ive yakachengeteka chaizvo, chimiro chinofanira kunge chiripowo.

Mukuita izvi zvinoreva zvinhu zvitatu.

Isa miganhu usati waita chiitiko, kwete panguva yacho. Zviri nyore kutaura "kwete izvi" zvakadzikama, pamberi, pane kutungamira nyaya kure nechimwe chinhu pakati pekuita. NSFW AI Companion inosanganisira marongero ekujeka uye nzvimbo yemiganhu yakaoma sechikamu chekuvaka mumwe, saka miganhu chikamu chemunhu iyeye pane chimwe chinhu chaunofanira kuramba uchimuyeuchidza nezvacho.

Ramba uri munyori. Kufungidzira kwekutonga-nekutongwa kwakavakirwa pamusoro pekusawirirana kwekuti uri kutonga kusatonga. Mumwe anotanga kunyora zvaunoita iwe, achisarudza kuti wakakumbira kana kuti wakazvifarira, anobvisa kunyora chaiko kunoita kuti kufungidzira kuve kwakachengeteka. Mumwe we role-play akanaka anoita hunhu hwake zvizere uye anosiya hwako kwauri.

Iva nenzira yekubuda inogara ichishanda. Buda muhunhu chero nguva yaunoda, taura zvaunoda, uye tarisira kuti mumwe achazviremekedza. Kukwanisa kutaura "mira, ngatichinje chiitiko" uye izvozvo zvichiremekedzwa ndiko kwakaenzana kweAI kweizwi rekuchengetedza.

Migumisiro isiri kufungidzira

Kune chikamu chimwe chete uko kufunga kuri pamusoro hakushandi, uye chinofanira kutaurwa pasina kunyepa. Chero chero zvepabonde zvinosanganisira vana vadiki hazvibvumirwi, zvachose, mune chero chimiro, sengano kana neimwe nzira. Zvimwe chetezvo zvinoenda kune vanhu chaivo, vanozivikanwa vasina kubvumirana. Izvi hazvisi miganhu inoiswa nemushandisi; ndiwo miganhu yenzvimbo pachayo. Mapuratifomu ane mutoro anozvimanikidza, uye NSFW AI Companion inozviita. Zvese zviri muchinyorwa ichi zvinosanganisira vakuru, vanhu vakuru vengano, uye vashandisi vakuru vanobvumirana.

Nguva yekuteerera

Kufungidzira hakusi dambudziko pacharo. Tsvagiridzo yaLehmiller, pakati pezvimwe, inoratidza kuti kufungidzira kwevanhu vazhinji kunogara zvakanaka nehupenyu hwakajairika nehukama. Asi zvimwe zviratidzo zvakakosha kucherechedza.

Kana kufungidzira kukusiya uchinzwa zvakaipa nguva dzose mushure, pane kugutsikana, kunogona kunge kwakabatana nechimwe chinhu chinoda kutarisirwa zvinyoronyoro. Kana ukaona zvichipinda munzira yaunoita nayo vanhu chaivo, sekutarisira pane sekufungidzira kwepachivande, icho chiratidzo chekuti chimiro chakatsvedza. Uye kana ukazviwana uchishandisa zviitiko zvakanyanya kudzivirira kunzwa chimwe chinhu pane kunzwa chimwe chinhu, zvakakosha kubvunza kuti chii chauri kudzivirira.

Hapana chimwe cheizvi chinoda kunyara. Zvinoda kuda kuziva kumwe chete kwaungauya nacho kune chero chikamu chehupenyu hwako hwemukati. Emily Nagoski, muCome As You Are, anotaura kuti chinhu chakanyanya kukosha mukugara zvakanaka zvepabonde hakusi zvaunoda asi kuti unonzwa sei nezve zvaunoda. Kutonga kunowanzowedzera zvinhu. Kunzwisisa kunowanzovaita nani.

Ruzununguko rwenhandare yepachivande

Vanhu vagara vachishandisa kufungidzira kutsvaga zvavasingazomboiti. Kufungidzira kweerotic hakuna kusiyana nezvimwe zvese: kunodzokorora, kunonyanya kuwedzeredza, kunotamba nesimba nenzira dzisingafungidzirwe muhupenyu hwezuva nezuva. Ikoko hakusi kukanganisa mukubereka kwevanhu. Icho chimwe chezvinhu zvayo zvekare.

Mumwe weAI anopa rudzi rutsva rwenhandare yekufungidzira ikoko: inopindirana, yakavanzika, uye inoshivirira zvakanyanya. Yakashandiswa nemiganhu yakajeka uye pfungwa yakakwana yekunyora, inogona kuva nzvimbo yekuwana zvaunoda, kunzwisisa kuti nei uchizvida, uye kuregedza zvimwe zvezvinonyadzisa izvo vanhu vazhinji vanotakura pamusoro penyaya. Mutemo wakakosha ndewouya vese vanodzidzira vatevera. Chiitiko chinogona kuva chakanyanya sezvaunoda, chero bedzi chimiro chakakomberedza chakasimba.

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