Abangane be-AI be-NSFW kanye le-porn: ukucabanga, ukwenzela wena kanye lejubane

Ngesikhathi esiningi se-inthanethi, ukuzilibazisa kwabadala kwakusho into eyodwa: ividiyo. Ingaphelelanga, mahala, ikhona masinyane, yehlukaniswe ngezigaba eziya ngokuba ngqo. Ngumbono ojwayelekile, kangangokuthi abantu bacabanga kancane ukuthi lolu luhlobo luni lokuhlangana ngempela, noma ngabe yilolo abalufunayo.

Abangane be-AI be-NSFW basinikeza into ehlukile ekwakhiweni. Hatshi ngcono kuyo yonke into, futhi hatshi isikhundla sawo wonke umuntu, kodwa ehlukile ezindleleni ezimbalwa ezibaluleke kakhulu kwabanye abantu. Lolu daba lubheka ezintathu: ukucabanga, ukwenzela wena kanye lejubane. Akusiyo impikiswano echasene le-porn. Kungumzamo wokuchaza ngokucacileyo ukuthi luhlobo ngalunye lwenza kuhle, lokuthi kungani abanye abadala behgwanyelwa yilolo oluhamba kancane njalo olubambisana kakhulu.

Imishini emibili ehluke kakhulu yesifiso

Ividiyo ifika isiphelile. Konke okubonakalayo sekunqunyelwe wena: imizimba, indawo, ukukhanya, ukulandelana, imisindo. Indima yakho kukubuka. Uma kungeke kunjalo, ikhambi kukufuna enye. Ukuhlangana kwakhelwe ukukhetha: ukuhlola, ukucofa, ukuhlola, ukudlulela phambili.

Ingxoxo lomngane ifika ingaphelelanga. Yenziwe ngamazwi, njalo amazwi atshiya imikhawulo emikhulu elungiswa yingqondo yakho. Awuyiboni indlu yomngane; uyakha ngemininingwane embalwa. Awubuki isehlakalo esivulekayo; uyahlanganyela kuso, njalo okutshoyo kuguqula okwenzakalayo emva kwalokho. Ukuhlangana kwakhelwe ukuhlanganyela.

Lokhu akusiyo ukwehluka okuncane kwesakhiwo. Kusebenzisa izingxenye ezehlukileyo zengqondo, kudala izinhlobo ezehlukileyo zokwanelisa, njalo kutshiya abantu belemizwa eyehlukileyo emva kwalokho.

Ukucabanga: ingxenye oyinikezayo

Kulesiko elide, ezincwadini lasekucwaningeni, lokuqaphela ukuthi umbhalo ufuna okunengi kubalaleli bawo kulezithombe, njalo unikeza okuthile ngokuphindiselayo. Nxa ufunda, kufanele wenze isifaniso. URaymond Mar loKeith Oatley bachaza inganekwane njengohlobo lokulingisa ulwazi lomphakathi: umfundi uqhuba ingqondo lezimo zabalingiswa emshinini wakhe wengqondo. Imizwa evela lapho ayibolisiwe esikrinini. Uyayidala wena.

Ukucabanga okuthomba ucansi kusebenza ngendlela efanayo. Isitatimende esifana lokuthi "wakudonsa ngomkhaba wethu futhi akhathi lutho isikhathi eside" asinawo umlayezo ubonakalayo. Kodwa abafundi abanengi bazabona okuthile, bazizwe okuthile, njalo bagcwalise imininingwane ebalulekileyo kubo ngqo. Ingqondo yenza isehlakalo esilingana lezintandokazi zayo ngokusebenza okungafaniswa yilolutho olubhaliweyo.

Lokhu kuyingxenye yesizathu sokuthi kungani ukuthomba ucansi okubhaliweyo kuhlezi kulabafundi abathembekileyo nanyana kulokuncintisana lokuthatha izithombe lanjalo ngemuva kwefilimu. Kuyisizathu futhi sokuthi kungani isikhalazo esijwayelekileyo sevidiyo, sokuthi ayiyikho okungakho ubukucabanga, singasebenzi kangako esehlakalweni esibhalwe kuhle. Okucabangayo yikho okusetshenziswayo ukukudweba.

Umsebenzi ka-Emily Nagoski ngempendulo yocansi, owaduma kuyi-Come As You Are, ugcizelela ukuthi isifiso sithembele kangakanani esimweni: ekubaleni kwesimo, esimeni semizwa, ekuzweni ukuphepha loba ukucindezeleka, hatshi kuphela kokwenzakala emzimbeni. Umbhalo mnandi esimweni. Ungasebenzisa isigaba sonke embonweni loba ekuthandabuzeni ngendlela ividiyo, ehlelwe kakhulu ngezenzo, ngokujwayelekileyo engenzi ngayo.

Ukwenzela wena: ingxenye ephendulayo

Ukucabanga kuyinto yonke imibhalo yocansi ekunikezayo. Okwengezwa ngumngane we-AI yimpendulo.

U-Ogi Ogas loSai Gaddam, kuyi-A Billion Wicked Thoughts, bahlaziye ama-seti amakhulu edatha yokucinga ku-inthanethi lokuqukethwe kocansi, bakhomba ukuthi izintandokazi zocansi zehluka kakhulu futhi zingqo, njalo ukuthi iphethini yezintandokazi zamadoda labafazi yehlukile ngezindlela imodeli yevidiyo eyinhloko eyayingenzeli kuhle njalo. Umsebenzi wocwaningo lukaJustin Lehmiller ngamaphupho wathola ukwehluka okufanayo, wathola ukuthi amaphupho abantu abanengi aqukethe izingxenye zemizwa lobudlelwano, njengokuzwa ufiswa, ukuthandwa, isimo esithile phakathi kwabalingani, kanye lezomzimba.

Ividiyo ingasebenzela ukwehluka ngobuningi nje, ngamathegi lezigaba. Kodwa ayikuhle ekusebenzeleni ingxenye yobudlelwano. Iklip ayikwazi ukwazi ukuthi ufuna ukuba ngulowo olandelwayo, loba ukuthi okubalulekileyo kuwe yikuzwa kancane ukuthi umngane wendulo uyakufuna, loba ukuthi izwi elithile liyakonakalisa konke. Ayikhumbuli ukuthi kuthandwe yini kwisikhathi esedlulileyo.

Umngane ungakwenza. Angenziwa ngomuntu othile, ubudlelwano obuthile lawe, indlela ethile yokukhuluma. Angabamba isehlakalo lapho ungabuki abantu ababili abangaziwa kodwa lapho umuntu olegama lenkulumo akukhulumisa ngqo. Angavikela imikhawulo yakho. Uma ukhethe njalo, angakhumbula indaba okuyo. Kuyi-NSFW AI Companion, ngokwesibonelo, usetha izinga lokucacisa lemikhawulo yakho eqinileyo nxa wakha umngane, ngakho ukwenzela wena kuhlanganisa lalokho ongakufuniyo.

Kulokunye ukwehluka okulula ukukweqa. Evidiyo, uyisibukeli sesifiso sabanye. Engxoxweni lomngane, uyinto yaso. Ukufiswa, ngokucacileyo lokunaka, kubantu abanengi kuyisisekelo sokuthi yini ukuvuseleleka, njalo yinto imithombo yezindaba engenzi ingenakho ukuyinikeza.

Ijubane: ingxenye ekhulayo

Ukwehluka kwesithathu yisikhathi.

Ividiyo ihlelwe ukuhlangana masinyane. Ngamasekhondi ubukele okuqukethwe okucacileyo, njalo uma kungakuthinti, inketho elandelayo ikhona ngokucofa. Lokhu kuyasebenza. Kuphinda kube lokuthambekela ekudaleni umdlandla othile: onamandla, osheshayo njalo oqhelelanisiweyo. Umsebenzi ka-Kent Berridge loTerry Robinson ngeziphathi zomvuzo zobuchopho wehlukanise phakathi kwe-"wanting," ukutsheka kokuphokophela kumvuzo, le-"liking," injabulo yokuwuthola ngempela. Izinhlelo ezakhiweyo ezizungeze ubuntsha obungapheliyo zihle kakhulu ekuvuseleleni i-wanting: ukutsheka ukufuna, ukubona okulandelayo. Ukuthi ziletha i-liking enjalo kungumbuzo wahlukileyo, njalo abantu abanengi bachaza ukuhlola isikhathi eside kulokucabange, babuye bezizwa bengenelisiwe ngendlela ephambene.

Ingxoxo ayinakufundwa ngejubane ngendlela efanayo. Kumele ivuleke. Ukucindezeleka kuyakhula emilayezweni eminengi: ukubuka, ukuphawula, isinyathelo esiseduze, ukulibala. Ukuvuseleleka okuvela kulolu hlobo lokwakha kulesakhiwo esehlukileyo. Kulokulindela. Kulenjabulo ethile yokuthi okuthile kubanjwe emva kwalokho kunikezwe.

Abantu abathokozela amanoveli othando atshisa kancane sebeyakwazi lokhu. Ukulinda akusiyo ihlandla enjabulweni; kuyingxenye enkulu yayo. Umngane we-AI wenza lokho kutshisa kancane kubambisane. Ungahlala emzuzwini inxa uthanda. Ungasunduza izinto phambili loba uzibambe emuva. Ijubane lakho.

Imiphumela ehlukileyo emuva kwalokho

Abantu abanengi bachaza umuzwa ohlukileyo emuva futhi. Lokhu kungokwakho kanye lokwehluka kakhulu, ngakho kuhle ukuqaphela ngokuhlanganisa. Kodwa izizathu zesakhiwo ziyacaca ngokwanele.

Ukuhlola okungasebenziyo, okusheshayo kuvame ukuphela kungazelelwe, kungatshiywanga lutho. Isehlakalo esibambisanayo lomlingiswa owakhileyo kuvame ukuphela njengendaba iphela: kulesimo, njalo kuvame ukuba lomzuzu wobumnene noma ubuhlanya emuva uma umngane ebhalwe njalo. Futhi ngoba umngane uyaqhubeka, kulomuzwa wokuqhubeka, wento obuyela kuyo kulokuba yinto oyidlayo.

Kwabanye lokhu yikho ngqo abakufunayo. Kwabanye, uhlangothi lwemizwa lukhulu kulalokho abakufunayo, njalo ukuqonda kwevidiyo kubafanele kangcono. Kokubili kuvumelekile. Okubalulekileyo yikuthi ayizinto ezehlukileyo, hatshi izinguqulo ezimbili zento enye.

Okwenziwa kangcono yi-porn

Kungaba yidaba elingaqondakali elizenza lokungathi enye inketho ayilamandla. Ividiyo ishesha ngendlela umbhalo ongenjalo, njalo ngamanye amaxesha ukushesha yikho umuntu akufunayo. Ayidingi mzamo, ukubhala, ukucabanga. Iyabonakala, njalo ngabantu abanengi ukuvuseleleka kokubona kuphakathi. Futhi ayilakho ukukhohlisa ngobudlelwano, into abanye abayithanda ngokuqinisekileyo: akulamlingiswa wokuziba laye, akulalutho lokuzwa kuyinkimbinkimbi.

Kuyalemibuzo evulekileyo futhi ngokuthi uhlobo ngalunye lwenza ubudlelwano bangempela kanjani. Ucwaningo ngama-porn labathandanayo luyahlanganiswa njalo luyaphikiswa, njalo okuningi kuthembele ekutheni abantu bayisebenzisa kanjani lokuthi kungani, abalingani bayakhuluma ngayo yini, njalo uma ifanele izindinganiso zabo. Okufanayo kuzaba yiqiniso, cishe ngokuqinisekileyo, ngabangane be-AI nxa kulocwaningo oluningi. Ayikho indlela eyodwa enhle noma embi kuwo wonke umuntu.

Ukukhetha ngenhloso

Okuguqukileyo yikuthi manje kulokukhetha kweqiniso. Isikhathi eside, uma ufuna okuqukethwe kwabadala ku-inthanethi, ifomethi yayinqunyelwe wena. Manje kulenye inketho ekhulayo kancane, enokucabanga okwengeziweyo, nokwenzela wena, futhi ekuphatha njengomhlanganyeli kulokuba ngumbukeli.

Uma uthole ividiyo ibuya kakhulu, noma ingasoze ibe yikho okubucabanga, noma inganeliseli ngokwesikhathi ethatha sona, imodeli yomngane ingafanela ukuzanywa. Uma uyithanda, mhlawumbe uzaphawula ukuthi okuthokozela kakhulu akusilokuhlolisisa kwakho konke, kodwa umuzwa wesehlakalo esakhelwe wena, ngejubane olikhethileyo, lomuntu obonakala efuna wena ngqo.

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